Any helpfull tips on how I could help my friends get over their icthyophobia, and arachnophobia?

Answer 1

Phobias develop as an extension of a personal felt weakness. She in someway because of how she see's her own morality doesn't understand these things. Its usually based on feelings, she feels. So typically, you slowly immerse a person in their fear, SLOWLY, and allow them to think about their feelings, turning feelings into thoughts makes them more..... encouterable, plus allows her to see them in a new light, such is the power of socialize the personal. Were forced, once we say something, to see it from the view of what we perceive the viewer, or audience to see. In other words, were forced to look at things different. So just slowly show her pics of spiders, get her talking about her feelings, and help her to better understand their capability and their nature. Also get her to talk about her own perceive mortality and spirituality which is the real problem here.....