2007-11-25 13:14:14 · 41 answers · asked by jas 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
My the mere fact you asked this question, your conscience is telling you something. Be truthful to yourself! You know it if it is sinful or not. Denial of oneself is more sinful than the sin itself. Take care and be nice to yourself. Life is what you make of it! You have the Right To Be Happy!!!! Very Happy!!!! Take care and God bless.
2007-11-25 13:23:46 · answer #1 · answered by Prof F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you read the entire bible and believe what is in there, then yes it is a sin to love someone other than your husband, or think about someone other than your husband in a loving way.
I think that the reference has to do with men thinking of young woman other than their wives being considered as a sin.
If you are having those types of feelings for someone, then you have to decide if your going to be with your husband or not. It's not fair to him to use as a security blanket, while you are not devoted to the marriage. Do both of your selves a favor and decide which way you want to go and then don't look back.
2007-11-25 13:20:32 · answer #2 · answered by wildwillyinva 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are thinking of the other person in a sexual way then yes it is a sin. You need to talk to your spouse and come to a conclusion on what you are going to do. If your going to end the marriage I wouldn't necessarily tell your spouse that hey hon sorry but I am fantasizing about this other person. If your going to work on your marriage then make sure you CUT ALL TIES with the other.
2007-11-25 13:24:30 · answer #3 · answered by stefanibrown74 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sinful? It is a temptation.
But when you make a move towards that "love", then it is sin. You can make the current one work because there is more to love than meets the eye at first look. Seek God for help
Good luck
2007-11-25 13:20:54 · answer #4 · answered by Need 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need to ask that question here. If you are really worried about this then go speak with your church leader, or find a church and attend. God does not say it is okay to divorce because you changed your mind. The evils of the world will not understand that. Go seek God to find the answer is it sinful. Yes it is by the way.
2007-11-25 13:20:51 · answer #5 · answered by jalwells 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all how do you wind up marrying someone you dont love makes no sense at all. than talking about being in love with someone else if you lust after another you already commited a sin okay so lets forget it.
best of luck
2007-11-25 13:21:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think so unless it is hurting your marriage. if it is you need to either get a divorce, or you need to try and forget about the other person. I am in a similar situation, but I still love my ex and he feels the same way, we just cannot make it together. So the both of us have moved on. He is living with someone and they have a child together and I have remarried a very nice guy, but who has some major problems I will just have to learn to live with. My ex had problems and I had the same problems and I went to a Dr. and took care of mine and he refused to go until he realized it was too late. Now he is taking the meds he needed, but 8 yrs. too late, and i am not one to break up a family so we just stay real good friends. If i need anything he will give it to me, but I don't ask..His gf can't stand me, but comes to me for advice as to how to handle his medical problems. She also knows he still loves me and I feel the same but I refuse to interfer with their lives.
2007-11-25 13:25:37 · answer #7 · answered by myninny54 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sinful? No. Probably not a good position to be in, but not sinful. Life is about learning from your mistakes. Follow your love. Make sure you get the lawyer first.
2007-11-25 13:22:30 · answer #8 · answered by MMAZZY 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What's both sinful and painful is marrying someone that you don't love...lying before God. Get out while you can, so you can be free to truly love...it's a great feeling as you have rediscovered.
2007-11-25 13:17:45 · answer #9 · answered by 4Seasons 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you still married?? if yes , too bad!! and if your involve with someone else, how deep??? (e.g.sexually, emotionally etc.) if so, you should stop it as soon as possible, or end your current marriage before things get any thicker. you must weigh things thoroughly, this things will affect you greatly in the future, coz you cant have two relationships all at ounce, now let go of one, your affecting lives here, your es and two others not to mention future lives if this relations bear fruit. think of these lives that will go unbalance. its irresponsibility in so many levels, morally, emotionally. just let go of one, as early as possible.
2007-11-25 13:29:49 · answer #10 · answered by ezekiel1516 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋