Why do people come into your life and just leave?

Answer 1

Unfortunately it is true alot of people are selfish and when they reach the point that they feel there is nothing more to milk from the situation they move on, often with no explanation or regard for the person they are leaving in the dark.
The answer is not to become bitter and untrusting, because then you are letting that person get the better of you. You can always learn from these experiences and use them to spot patterns alot of people that are shallow and thoughtless exibit the same characteristics or habits.
Not everything in life deserves an explanation, alot of things happen for a reason and if nothing else things like this can help us to appreciate the people that are there when we need them.

Answer 2

People come into your life for a reason, a season, or a lifetime.
When you figure out which it is, you know exactly what to do.
When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a
need you have expressed outwardly or inwardly. They have come to assist
you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support,
to aid you physically, emotionally, or spiritually. They may seem like a
godsend, and they are. They are there for the reason you need them to be. Then, without any wrong doing on your part or at an inconvenient time,this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up or out and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled; their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered and it is now time to move on.
When people come into your life for a SEASON, it is because your
turn has come to share, grow, or learn. They may bring you an experience of
peace or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.
Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season.

LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons; those things you must
build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation.

Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person/people (anyway);
and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas
of your life.

It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.

Thank you for being a part of my life...Smile and stop here if
you're not into this final part: This is to show people you love them and to
see how many people love you!

Answer 3

It's part of what makes up a life. People wil come and go. If you live your life worrying about the fact that someone will leave your life, then you will never let them enter it.

Most people that come into your life do so expecting to not to leave it in a bad way. Sometimes that happens however, It's not so bad if you think of it in a big picture.

Answer 4

Most of us walk around with a void in our life in which we believe others can fill. Often times we reach out to people because we think they offer us something we need or lack. However, when that need is not fulfilled by the person, we end up making up a reason why we can no longer be with them yet in reality the problem lays within us.

Answer 5

I have had people who have come into my life and act like they care about me or love me,then they just leave me without any kind of warning or for no reason at all. I have had supposed friends who were only my friends and were in my life long enough to take,take,take,but whenever I needed their love or support they were never there for me,surprise surprise.

I had a very serious relationship with a boyfriend of mine in the past to the point that I thought that we were going to definitely get married because we loved each other so much. However,he was a mamas boy and she would never let him spend much time with me when we were together. Needless to say,over time and dealing with a long distance relationship didn't help matters any either. We finally broke up over being together for ten years,and it was the hardest thing that I ever had to do. In my heart and soul,I know that he was,"the one,"but unfortunately,he never felt the same way about me as I felt for him.

People come into your life because they want something from you,and then once that they get whatever they want,they up and leave you all alone. I am not trying to sound catty or mean,but after I have been hurt and betrayed by MANY people and supposed friends,I don't trust anyone period! I would rather be alone then be friends with people who are going to end up hurting me and taking me for advantage! I just cannot and will not go through that pain and heartache again!

Answer 6

the same thing as how we come to others' life and we leave them to for some specific reasons.

there are no permanent relationships in this world, we even hear stories about families falling out with each other. the only thing we can do is to treasure every moment we share with the people we love.

Answer 7

We don't really possess people or put them into our life as we want them. We cannot use people either. We only admire and love them when they come into our lives or when they leave sometimes because we don't care for them. So when they come, thanks be to God and when they leave they are called for other purpose and they are not meant for us.

Answer 8

sometimes things don't work out i guess. it does hurt when we only have a small amount of time with someone, especially when its not our idea for them to leave. then there are others who just think of themselves and not the feelings of others and how their leaving will affect others. i experienced this a couple of years ago and i've learned a few things, but still feel sad at times.

Answer 9

Because some people come in to your live for a reason
i dont know what it is but let just say this.
some people come in to our lives for a reason we decided who stays and who leaves.

Answer 10

Maybe they feel they are not wanted in your life. Rejection can drive them out of your life. If you want a person in your life you have to tell them to stay.