do you think i should get help from my college counselor now?

Question

i am terribly shy no friends, cant talk to my relatives, and cant talk to anybody! i a 18 years old girl in college. do you think i should go to my counsler for help. if i will get courage to go what should i tell him that can you cure my shyness? how should i get help form him/her. i am tired of myself. or should i kill myself please help me? because of my shyness i am becoming very mean

Answer 1

no, killing yourself isn't the answer. shyness can be overcome, trust me. i, too was shy when i was in grade school, but i have tons of friends now. pick your friends. befriend those whose interests are the same as yours. it's quite easy. all you have to do is muster the courage to talk to one of your seatmates in class. if not, you can always talk to your parents about this.

Answer 2

whoa. dont kill urself. there r wayyyyyy better ways to deal wit dis.
talk to the counsler. when u go in say u r shy and dont kno wut 2 say. let him/her question u and lead u into a conversation. the more u begin to c the counselor and tlk with him/her, u mite build a friendship. then u wouldnt b so shy around them and u would build confidence. dont worry bout wut other people think. u r who u r and there is nothing wrong wit dat. take it slow and tlk 2 the counsler weekly and wenever else u need to and things will start 2 get better.

Answer 3

Sounds like you're in a lot of pain. You should see a counselor and talk about self-esteem.