I really do since I've been hurt in the past many times and I stopped trusting people. I wish I can trust people outside of my family.
2007-11-25 10:37:28 · 15 answers · asked by Closed 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Yes .. I desire true friends because you can tell everything to him/her.....you have a shoulder to lean on. Finding someone to trust is hard....... but don't lose hope....... i'm sure there is someone you can trust....... just take your time......... finding is not easy but you are lucky if you found it........ but before you trust somebody make sure that you trust yourself first......
2007-11-25 10:48:53 · answer #1 · answered by camz54 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I desire true friends, even if it just was one true friend. When I was going through school my mum and dad had this horrible on and off relationship, separating and back together, and I was forced to keep changing schools. Everytime I had made a new friend I would just be taken away again, and always had to suffer as the new kid at school. It got better once I got to high school though, cause I stayed in the same place, but Ive never really 'been able to 'click' with anyone or have those childhood bonds if you know what I mean.
2007-11-25 18:49:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think everyone desires true friend/friendship. This is the one person who you can trust to tell you anything. Things you don't want to here and still be a good friend. This person is there through it all; the good and the bad. Someone you can call at anytime and they are their for you. A true friend is hard to find, and like you I'm sure there are some you can't trust. To find a true friend you have to be a true friend.
2007-11-25 18:45:52 · answer #3 · answered by IrishKerry13 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course I desire true friends - I have a few. My curse is that all my friends growing up either moved away, became homeschooled, or decided not to be my friend anymore... but I don't give up. Friends are very important. They listen when you need a listener, they give you a hug when you need comforting, and they support you no matter what. You don't have to trust someone the moment you meet them - it comes with time. Befriend someone, and as the friendship grows, the trust will come.
2007-11-25 18:49:05 · answer #4 · answered by Arwen89 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah. I feel the same way. I'm constantly worried that my freinds don't really have my back, or that as soon as I turn around they whisper to eachother how glad they are that I'm gone.
I don't like to think of myself as the kind of person that would warrant such behavior.
And I guess it's sort of rediculous, because I'm in more than 15 top freind lists on facebook... and i'm not a popular person.
I feel like I almost don't deserve them sometimes, and I really hope that the people that i've surrounded myself with aren't going to back out and leave me hanging, like others have in the past.
I don't even trust my family anymore.
I'm so paranoid, I know... but i just want the satisfaction of knowing that people around me really care. Not like I want them to come up and tell me how amazing I am. It can't be them saying something, because anyone can lie. It's not that difficult if you want it bad enough.
Is this how you feel too? Because after you've been hurt, or gone in depression once- even if you're better, and things are cleared up- it's sort of like, "who to trust"? You know??
2007-11-25 18:45:09 · answer #5 · answered by ♥ peace out ♥ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I do i have been hurt before plenty of times since my thyroid didn't work so people kept teasing me cause i was over weight but now i'm not only one of my friends new about my thyroid problem and she stood up for me we have each others backs and shes really myonly true friend and the person i can trust.
2007-11-25 18:44:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes! i dont have a friend who i can trust with everything. i have friends who i can trust for certain things but not everything. i need a true friend. only one thats all i need. well im still searching.i know u cant trust people just dont expect pple to be untrust worthy. talk to them 1st before u decide
good luck
2007-11-25 19:02:58 · answer #7 · answered by cece 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! True friends are a real treasure but true friends don't hurt you. They love you as friends and are there for you when you need them. DON"T GIVE UP. There are a lot of good people out there who want to be your friend.
2007-11-25 18:44:21 · answer #8 · answered by jollyjoe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i do...i have so many friends whom i thought were real friends...but they have let me down one way or another...i guess i expected them to value friendship as much as i do...but then they dont and i end up disappointed...i go very far when it comes to friendships...i give my best and of course expect the same from them....like you i've been hurt a lot of times because friends have failed me...i think true and real friends are a rare breed and once you've found one, you should do everything in your power to make that friend stay....
2007-11-26 01:08:57 · answer #9 · answered by geisha 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's hard to trust people but when you get to know them really well they can feel like family. but even close friends can stab you in the back..i've done it to a really close friend before and i regret it to this day..were still best friends but i feel a weirdness about the lack of closure from the whole problem
but anyway friends will come and go but family will always be there
i have friend problems too
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2007-11-25 18:44:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋