I'm 23, a law student, and fairly desirable, I would say (not to sound conceited, haha). My friends say I'm really attractive (5'5", long brown hair, brown eyes, 120lbs). My ex and I broke up about a month ago. It was fairly serious - we'd talked about marriage. Now, whenever I see happy couples, I feel sad and alone. A lot of my friends have gotten engaged recently, and as much as I want to be happy for them, I'm insanely jealous and can't help but feel bitter about the whole situation. I know I don't need a man to complete me, but it would be nice to have someone to love. I can't figure out why I'm not meeting the right guys, and why I'm not finding someone. How do I stop feeling so bitter about being single?
2007-11-25 10:34:58 · 9 answers · asked by skichamonix515 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Stop!
Before you go any further in life you need to resolve you deep seeded insecurity and self esteem issues that make you "insanely jealous."
The you need to learn how to be honest with yourself and learn how to tell the difference between the "wants" and "needs" in your life.
Try a few years of therapy. Good luck.
2007-11-25 10:41:05 · answer #1 · answered by box of rain 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are 23 and I know you think you are smart but you haven't learned anything yet. Here are a few secrets that will help you with the rest of your lilfe:
1. There is no Santa Claus
2. Marriage sucks
3. All men cheat
4. Everyone lies (you even lie to yourself)
Good luck and Happy Holidays!!! Count your blessing that you are single!!! If you want real answers from a man that doesn't lie anymore email me.
2007-11-25 12:11:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You haven't met anyone yet because it's not your time yet.
Just because you have a boyfriend or even a fiance doesn't mean that's the right person for you.
A few of your friends who are now engaged will be divorced 5 years after they get married because they married the wrong person.
Take your time....have some fun.....work on your career and he'll come along when he's supposed to. Don't rush it.
2007-11-25 10:48:35 · answer #3 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should maybe spend some time alone. Then when you are ready get back up on that horse (ha ha). You are young and seem to have a lot to offer any guy. so If they are losers that has nothing to do with you. But If you keep picking these guys then maybe you need some counseling their maybe unresolved issues.
2007-11-25 10:46:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wll I don't understand your urgency to get married-try dating for a while-you just haven't met the right guy yet and stop feeling jealous its ugly-and people wear their emotions and most will pick up on that.
2007-11-25 10:41:07 · answer #5 · answered by Lunaeclipz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you really dont want to jump straight back into another realationship already do you??sometimes men/woman can smell desperation you know and its not attractive no matter how attractive you are.Why dont you just enjoy meeting other people for a while sometimes you have to kiss a few frogs before you find a prince.Have fun!!
2007-11-25 10:44:33 · answer #6 · answered by sarah71397 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To to remind yourself that God (or serendipity if you don't believe God) has someone who is WAY better for you. Keep cultivating your great personality and education and financial status. Great things and a great man is in store for you!
2007-11-25 10:43:00 · answer #7 · answered by Xanadu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That will come with time. You will find someone to love when you stop looking for it. That is how it always happens.
2007-11-25 10:39:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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Ill be your newest friend! im going through the same thing as we speak...no hidden agenda, just support and new pals! :)
2007-11-25 10:55:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋