and someone asks you directly if your husband ever hit you.. how do you answer? Do you say, "No"? What if someone comes along and says, "Yes he did. I saw him spank you that one time."
How are you supposed to answer?
I'm just curious.
2007-11-25 10:29:04 · 54 answers · asked by crc00000 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Oh, come on. What did the other person see? Him give you a playful swat? What husband hasn't done that?
If someone saw him give you a full-out spanking, then I assume they share your interests, and know only too well the difference between spanked and hit.
The answer is no, he never hit you.
2007-11-26 03:52:20 · answer #1 · answered by Just Me 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What goes on in your bedroom as well as your household for that matter is your personal business. Since the spanking occurred as a sexual and and you were both in consent, I would not consider it to be abuse so you could honestly tell yourself he did not hit you. If it is asked on some type of paperwork you may have to fill out or if a medical professional inquires, as long as he never bruised or broke any bones when he spanked you, the answer would be now. Its not anyones business. (Why would you perform your kinky sex acts in front of people anyway to put yourself in a position for them to even ask you that type of question)
2007-11-25 10:41:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A spank in the bedroom is a lot different then a out right punch or hit. You were both getting kinky, and besides it's no one's business but yours. Being kinky and being abused are two totally seperate issues here. Tell them to mind their own business.
2007-11-25 10:32:31 · answer #3 · answered by Nikki 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most of the time it never is really is WHAT is done but the context of what is done. Like you can hit someone with affection or in sex and I suppose it's OK if both people are consenting and are able to give that consent. But, if one or both people are minors, not legally sane, or immature, the consent can't be given even if they say they give it, so it's not OK. If hitting is done in sex, I would hope no one is around to report it, but I guess that is a matter of taste too. I briefly went out with someone who was into hurting and being hurt during sex. Personally it scared me and I did not like it. So that was that.
2007-11-25 10:41:16 · answer #4 · answered by Nick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer is "NO" If the spanking is consenting than it does not count. If anyone saw it U say it was a joke or U tell the whole truth. Your business your choice.
2007-11-25 10:36:41 · answer #5 · answered by bhappy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spanking is not the same as hitting and some people look at spanking as a sexual thing and can get turned on by it. I look as spanking as being painful to me and who likes to have pain.
2007-11-25 10:34:16 · answer #6 · answered by Nancy M 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say 'no' because when they ask you, the word 'hit' may be used to describe physical or domestic violence. im sure the person asking is not referring to spanking from kinky sex.
if the other person comes out and says they did see him spank you, explain to the person asking the question that when u mere married to him, you guys had somewhat of a fetish of spanking
2007-11-25 10:35:36 · answer #7 · answered by PrincessKK 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Say no. I would! I think spanking and hitting are totally different things. One is for pleasure, the other is to release anger. Besides, it's none of their business!
2007-11-25 10:33:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-09 11:40:05 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, I believe that what goes on behind closed doors, should stay there. (Kind of like what happens in Vegas, stays in Vegas.) I don't judge other people & I don't want them to judge me. It's none of anybody's business what your sex life/intimate relationships are like, unless you choose to share that with them. It's totally up to you what you tell other people about your life. If you're not interested in sharing, you just have to find a nice way to tell them to mind their own business.
Unless, of course, these are questions asked by the court during divorce proceedings, then you just have to tell the truth.
Good luck !
2007-11-25 10:38:50 · answer #10 · answered by helen keller 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋