right well i posted a question yesterday about this guy tommy i like in uni!
Now i'v liked about 5 guys since iv came out two years ago and they have al turned out st8!
i just don;t go for the over flamboyant gay tyoes, have nothing wrong with them but just not my type!
this guy tommy, he is soo nice, he always so friendly to everyone and always cahts to me and kinda like touches me like touchy feely hi! sort a thing on the shoulder, and once again i'm falling for him, i just dnt think i can tke it if he turns out to be st8, hes an actor but tht doesnt really sugest anything, iv sent him an email asking him to go for a drink but no reply yet, whats your opinion on it paaaalllease thanks so much guys, much apprecited! xxxx
2007-11-25 09:23:26 · 9 answers · asked by Kieron J 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
your problem isn't that you only like "straight" guys... it's just that you like masculine guys ... and so do I... What you need to do is place a personal ad somewhere like match.com and look for a masculine gay guy... there's plenty out there... it's just you wouldn't guess them to see them on the street... that's why somewhere like Match.com is a good idea.... takes all the "guesswork" out ....
2007-11-25 10:04:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I went the same path for years, and it usually ended up me scaring away the guy, who was unavailable anyway, but as I look back, what I'd do differently is:
Go for the fire hose first! Don't start with touchy feely, romance, potential "true love forever" up front. You'll surely scare him away if he's bi curious and wants something lightweight, fun, physical, and sexy, but not intense.
If you get all psychological on these str8 guys, you can be sure they'll run. But if you just seize the moment when his antenna is high, you could have a good time. Just protect your heart. Don't let str8 guys break your heart. Eventually you can find someone who is hot, masculine, and available, at least for a half an hour.
2007-11-25 09:35:15 · answer #2 · answered by topink 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it, I've done the same thing with women, I just like straight women better than gay, it has gotten me in trouble before. Yes, I agree with some of the others here, it's the masculinity. I like feminine women, that's why I go for straight. I'm not a dyke, but just me, and in the gay world, it seems, there aren't very many feminine types, at least where I have lived. But they are out there. Just be patient, go to the gay bars, and you will find your masculine man in time. I've had a lot of gay guy friends, and some of them were more masculine than some of my straight guy friends.LOL!!
2007-11-25 09:46:51 · answer #3 · answered by cydnimo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the relationship between you and your pal is risky. also it type of feels to me he needs to play a video games along with your thoughts. he tells you he isn't any longer fascinated and also grant you with mix messages. step decrease back and locate someone who's into you. don't be chilly to him you're purely going to proceed this undesirable relationship and get harm. some how i comprehend you comprehend the answer do exactly what you want to for you.
2016-10-25 01:45:36 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it must be that "forbidden fruit" thingie.
Same thing when single women date married men, or vice versa......or husband's cheat on their wives.
They say forbidden fruit is the most delicious.
I think it's only a fable, however. Everyone I know who has tasted it, is divorced....HA!
2007-11-25 09:30:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know touchy str8 guys, they are just comfortable in their sexuality.
there are a lot of gay guys who ppl would guess to be str8, so i suggest you go ask a girl if she knows any. str8 girls always knows gay guys that you would think to be str8.
trust me :(
if he hasn't replied, he's not interested. so don't hassle the poor guy. it is probably pretty uncomfortable for him, especially if he is as nice as you describe him to be.
2007-11-25 09:30:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you may be attracted to straight guys, because they are masculine. maybe you can go to gay bars, there probably is a lot of masculine gay guys there.
2007-11-25 09:29:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You like how they act. It's no big deal.
It's just what you look for in a person.
2007-11-25 09:29:19 · answer #8 · answered by Traci, yo. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What about this foolproof thing called gaydar you lot are sposed to have?
2007-11-25 09:27:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋