2007-11-25 08:49:31 · 16 answers · asked by hmm 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
what do I think about teen pregnancy?
I think that teens should keep their legs closed until they get established in the world, mature, and learn responsibility for themselves before having to worry about a child.
For some reason it seems like teens are proud to be pregnant and don't really care because they know mommy and daddy will be there to take care of the baby that THEY brought into the world. People need to think about their actions and realize that sex isn't just fun, it's a responsibility because whether you use protection or not, you can still get pregnant. And I'm sorry, but teenagers aren't responsible enough to raise a child.
It's really sad what this world is coming to these days.
2007-11-25 08:59:29 · answer #1 · answered by pd♥ 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Firstly it depends upon the country and the culture involved. I am assuming you are talking about a "Western European cultural country -- The US, Britain, Australia, France etc.
It depends upon the situation the girl is in. If the couple are genuinely in love and they have the support of their parents, then I am all for them having the child and marrying when it is appropriate (as children really need both parents).
Naturally I would like both teens to finish High School and probably even go onto further education, that is why I say that they need the support of their parents.
If they do not have the support of their parents, or come from a poorer family, or both, then I would suggest to the couple that they think hard about their future and whether they want to bring the child into the world under such a poor situation. I would possibly suggest they look at two options --(a) have the baby and adopt it out (b) terminate the pregnancy.
2007-11-25 17:01:26 · answer #2 · answered by Walter B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on WHAT aspect of teen pregnancy you are talking about. If a teen got raped then thats another issue. If the teen was stupid enough to get themselves pregnant without meaning too, than that in my eyes is ridiculous and they should have known what their actions would lead to. If the teen wanted to get pregnant and had planned it in advance then it all depends on their maturity and what situation they are in. I personally don't think it is right for someone in their teens to bring up a child. They have just come out of childhood, and some teens act like children still. I think 20 should be the youngest, but hey, its all up to the person. Not my place to tell them what they can and can't do. Also, I don't think its right to get pregnant before marriage, or if not, then at least in a stable committed relationship where you know you are not about to split up anytime soon.
2007-11-25 17:19:05 · answer #3 · answered by Leavesonthelawn 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i personally don't like this question beacaue i am still considered a teen mom (even though i'm 20) i have 2 sets of twins and wouldn't trade them for the world! i am also pregnant with another set of twins at 9w3d it's still early but im still excited!!!!! now i was 16 when i got pregnant, and i knew it was wrong but i was on the pill and he was wearing a condom the first 2 times! im not saying my children were mistakes, they were suprising gifts! we did plan my current pregnancy! now im not saying teen pregnancy is right, but the way i look at it there is women in their 20's and 30's getting abortions and having unwanted children too! its not just teens! and i take very good care of my children i don't live with my parents and i did finish school!
2007-11-25 17:04:16 · answer #4 · answered by Cass erole♥ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it's not a scary thought because it is happening every day. Back in the day women had children younger than 15 years old. and now in today's society its looked down upon. Which i think is kind of hypocritical considering some peoples mom's and dads or grandparents fall into that category. yes, more expectations are expected out of us women now a days but still. I agree with most that education and being on your feet it way more important than settling down and making babies because yes you love your children but what are you offering them having a baby at 15 and not having a job, education, not being set on your feet well enough to take care of that baby. it would be hard for a teen now a days to take care of a baby. im not against it or for it. it all depends on your point of view are you ready for a baby, a family, the responsablity of all that. im 19. im in college and i have a lot going for me and i was very successful in high school. i wish i had someone to be settled with.. but not ready for a baby. cause right now i have nothing to give that baby! and wouldnt want to quit school and work pay check to pay check because thats how my family was and i know how it is. Theres nothing wrong with teen pregnancy. i have many friends who are pregnant or who have already had there baby and they are happy. so like i said its all on how that girl feels and if she is ready.
ps... make sure its with a man you know whats to be with you and isnt gonna run off.
have a good one!
2007-11-25 17:10:05 · answer #5 · answered by dancin_countrygurl 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think its down to the individual some teenagers are more mature and take responsability, they support there child, provide for it where as other teen mums just dont.
many a teen mum has brought up a child held down a job and even gained qualifications. I dont agree with people who have a sterotypical view and just disregard all teen mums, thats not fair there are some terrible mums out there and its shocking to think they are actually allowed to have responsability for a childs life and alot of them are far from being teenagers
2007-11-25 16:59:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I was a teen mom at one point and trust me it was difficult for me and I was 18 and had already graduated before I became pregnant. I couldn't imagine doing it any younger. I will not condone my children becoming parents so young but I know that I would not be able to walk away from them iin tehir time of need either.
2007-11-25 16:54:35 · answer #7 · answered by Crystal B 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Playing "house" that early is a huge mistake. Get your education first, a decent job with a savings account and a good mate/potential father for your child before even thinking about being a mommy or daddy. Not everyone fits the bill.
2007-11-25 17:00:27 · answer #8 · answered by Monique 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
don't agree,on teen pregnancy, if your not responsible on protecting your self when having sex your,what make you think your ready for a baby with no car no education no job with good benefits,living in one room in your parents house.baby's are cute just borrow one for 24 hours and you will be returning that baby in 2 hours.my advise is keep your legs close get more educated on how much it cost to have a baby.stay in school enjoy your teenage years with friends,stay in school earn a degree on something buy a house get married and then decide,if your ready to bring a baby into this economy...
2007-11-25 17:02:22 · answer #9 · answered by ♥ periwinkle ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Honestly, I think that it's common but I've never seen it. I've only heard of it. I don't think we should shun girls b/c they're pregnant. It's pressure to get an abortion or something. I am pro-choice anyways
2007-11-25 16:58:57 · answer #10 · answered by Lexxi 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋