That not only will he be a wimp, but he will never be a real ladies man? I shouldn't have to mention this, but it's true. Women SAY they want a sensitive man, but if the man really follows this advice, his ability to attract multiple women and get sex will be next to zero, lucky to get even ONE girl. The man's chances will be A LOT BETTER if he starts being a man with confidence and not so damn sensitive all the time where his chances of attracting and having sex with women will be very small.
Wouldn't you rather your son grow up to have success with women to the point that he's happy and satisfied and not this sensitive wimp with little success, lucky to get even one girl?
2007-11-25 07:50:23 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Newborn & Baby
Theres sensitive, and then theres sensitive. I like manly men, but I dont like jackasses.
I think my brothers are excellent examples of the male breed. theyre 18 and 15, both are able to cry, both are always willing and able to give a hug and help a person. They both care and are endlessly kind. But more than all that, theyre men. And let me tell you, the girls have always been beating down the doors to get at them.
I dont think a man should go around all whimpy and quiet, slinking around saying "are you okay?" and "can I help you some how?" Its just annoying. But a confident well educated man knows the problem and when and how to fix it. that is sensitive, and it is sexy.
Thats what I want my son to be like. Like his uncles.
2007-11-25 07:56:33 · answer #1 · answered by amosunknown 7 · 7⤊ 0⤋
As a child, we were always worried that my brother would be gay! (not that it is a problem though) He was always around girls and sensitive to a fault. He can pinpoint a problem with a girl to a tee.. Maybe it is because he was raised by my mother and myself. Anyway, he grew up very confident with women and sensitivity led Him to be a true ladies man. No he does not cry because the day is ugly but there is no problem with a little sensitivity.
2007-11-25 08:01:09 · answer #2 · answered by yourbigsis 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Being sensitive doesn't wipe out the "manly" aspect. I know a very manly man who loves to hunt and loves cars and all sorts of things. He is pretty much... well, a guy. But he's also very sensitive in that he tries not to hurt other people and is very sympathetic.
I think you have the wrong idea of what sensitive really means. He doesn't have to boo hoo and get upset over the littlest thing to be labeled as "sensitive". He just has to care about other people and put them before himself.
2007-11-25 08:12:58 · answer #3 · answered by its_victoria08 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Are you asking would you rather have a kind son or a successful one? I'd want a kind one.
2007-11-25 09:00:03 · answer #4 · answered by stephcarson 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it depends on the level of sensivity. if he is a complete wimp, vego, iner peace boy etc i agree with you, but caring every now and thten can't be harmful
2007-11-25 17:58:20 · answer #5 · answered by spy m @ beijing 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋