I just got divorced. I'm 26..he's 30..never been married. We've been talking not quite a month. He says he wants to be fwb & see where it goes. He said he knows we have to be careful since I just got divorced. We've hooked up twice. We've been talking &/or texting everyday. He's told me a couple of times that he misses me. He's gotten to where he doesn't text as often....& he hardly ever calls anymore...we just talk thru text. I told him yesterday that if he didn't have plans or anything we could do something & he said that he feels like he's getting sick. I know he could be telling the truth....but he could also be lying. I haven't heard from him since last night. He has told me before that he doesn't want to scare me or fall for me too fast but that he thinks of me alot. I told him I don't want either one of us to get hurt. I don't know what to think at this point though...I feel like I'm out in limbo here & I don't really like it. What do you guys think?
2007-11-25 07:46:37 · 7 answers · asked by love my life 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think you are just where you should be... out there in the water, but not jumping into the deep end too fast. He's telling you how he feels. He's respecting your space and giving you a chance to get yourself together again. He's also respecting your health by not wanting to see you when he's feeling sick. I'd stick with him a while and see what happens.
2007-11-25 09:46:25 · answer #1 · answered by old beatnik 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If texting is replacing actual talking, it is not a good sign. I think he is either losing his interest or using you as his boody call. Does he text you to ask you how your day went? Or does he do only when he wants to meet up? You cannot get to know a person through texting, so it seems to me that he has no interest in getting to know you.
Move on, you can meet someone better. And don't rush into jumping into another relationship. Maybe you should enjoy hook ups without any attachment after being married? I am just wondering here. Good luck! A dating life can be a rough one but you will be okay.
2007-11-25 15:53:49 · answer #2 · answered by terliuke 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Every time a man doesnt answer texts or come online or call at night its a RED FLAG he might be at someone elses place.Im not trying to worry u as a female im telling u if my partner doesnt chat with me or text me or call me at night i keep check up every other day.
2007-11-25 15:52:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is married or with someone significant -- regretfully for your heart -- you are his Plan B. Move on - he is playing you with the "I don't want to go to fast" line.
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Have you been to his house?
Can you call him at his house (not the cell phone)?
2007-11-25 16:16:02 · answer #4 · answered by Mercury 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
fwb is always complicated. chill out and find someone who will give you the attention that every woman deserves
2007-11-25 15:59:33 · answer #5 · answered by rumbz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me that he isn't into you......I think he is lying...are you absolutely sure that he isn't married??
2007-11-25 15:52:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
he wants sex
2007-11-25 15:59:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋