2007-11-25 07:04:35 · 25 answers · asked by back2future 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
There is no way that it can be classified as cheating. It must be one heck of a special guy that make you dream of him. Do you think about him constantly? Because that will be the normal cause why you dream about him at night. Lucky guy.
2007-11-25 08:01:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think so - I personally think that dreams are symbolic, not literal. The question is, what's going on in your life that ended up coming up as a dream about being with another man? Who is the other man and what does he represent? How did you feel? Excited? Sad? Ashamed?
2007-11-25 07:13:29 · answer #2 · answered by Nandina (Bunny Slipper Goddess) 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, it is not. It is natural for anyone to have distorted thoughts now and again. It doesn't become adultery until you act upon it and have a physical encounter.
You may feel shameful and sinful at the moment, but welcome to the club! We are all sinners and have sinful thoughts and visions. You just don't hear everyone else's sins out loud, but they are there.
Pray for forgiveness and strength whenever you tend to drift in the wrong direction. This doesn't meant that you love your husband less, it is human nature to sin. We just have to do our best to resist the temptation to make that mistake.
You might feel poorly if your husband is a great guy. That is why you feel like you are cheating. Don't feel this way anymore, you are not alone. God is with you....
2007-11-25 07:12:46 · answer #3 · answered by joe_on_drums 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that depends on where you stand with your belifs system-some say thinking it -is as doing it-however many psychologists teach that dreams are an extension of our day to day life-for things we have figured out how to complete its our minds way of working through the issue and seeing the end results in a dream-we cant control what we dream of so i would have to say no-but you may want to take a close look at the reasons you had had these feeling/thoughts and decide what you need to do
2007-11-25 07:11:17 · answer #4 · answered by resigned 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dreaming about another man is in no way cheating, you cannot control your dreams and it probably meant nothing, and you seem to feel guilty about it which to me shows you care a great deal for your husband.
2007-11-25 07:09:46 · answer #5 · answered by blue skies 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nope, that's absolutely not cheating, and it's no indication that you are unhappy in your relationship or that you don't love your partner. It's nothing to feel guilty about, it's just the brain doing the strange things that a brain sometimes does.
2007-11-25 08:11:12 · answer #6 · answered by Melanie T 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the dream. If it's a day dream. Well?
2007-11-25 07:09:28 · answer #7 · answered by Old Man 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you are lusting in your mind, but actually cheating? No.
But, you do need to get your mind on your husband and let this fantasy go in your mind and then out. You will be in trouble if you "water" your fantasy and keep it growing and then act on your dream.
2007-11-25 07:12:14 · answer #8 · answered by skyward 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was a dream. It was not cheating.
2007-11-25 08:44:36 · answer #9 · answered by kim h 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No.. its natural. I love my husband to no end.. but I've had dreams of other guys. And he's dreamt of other women. It's really no big deal... unless you act on the dreams...
2007-11-25 07:16:07 · answer #10 · answered by Aimee R 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋