me and my friend both like the same boy.don't get me wrong she's very pretty and smart but i just don't think that he likes her back.he told me that he likes me.so i don't know how to break it to her,she is the type of person that will take her anger out on me if i tell her!what should i do?
2007-11-25 05:57:33 · 7 answers · asked by fashionista.queen 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well if you know that he don't like her maybe tell the boy to tell her he just doesn't like her like that. Or you could find another boy that is attractive and maybe point him out so maybe she can get over the boy yall both want now. I'm sorry if my advice isn't helpful. Me and my bff like the same boy all the time but if she go out w/ him I don't get mad b/c maybe he didn't like me or I was just to late so if she gets mad if you go out w/ him then I don't know what to tell you(but if thats truly your bff you wouldnt go out if it would hurt her that bad)
P.S- I'm 12 also heaaaa
2007-11-25 06:06:59 · answer #1 · answered by babygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just forget about it. Even if he doesn't like her and likes you it will juststart problems. She will envy the time you spend with him
Me and my best friend went throught this last year. It ruined our releionship. There needs to be boundries there. Whenever one likes a boy the other must confess and call all dibs. If this happens, there wont be jealousy.
Just a word of advice
2007-11-25 14:06:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, first of all, you seem to be a litte snotty about this. She's your friend! Who CARES if he likes you? If she likes him as well, don't risk ur friendship on this. And if he asks why you don't want to take things further just tell him exactly why. Guys last like two seconds, believe me. Friend are sooo much more important.
2007-11-25 14:11:25 · answer #3 · answered by Navy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok a boy is not something to loose a best friend over.You need to tell her...First make sure its ok with her.Cause she is your best friend.Those don`t come easily.But theres many fish in the sea.
Hope this helped!
2007-11-25 14:20:59 · answer #4 · answered by britt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not date him. Your best friend should be more important than a guy. If she truly is your friend, it wouldn't even be a choice. But if she found out he likes you and knows you like him, she would want you to be happy. If not, she isn't much of friend anyway.
2007-11-25 14:00:49 · answer #5 · answered by Meghan 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get him or someone else to confess the truth. before there was a boy in my class that ALL the girls liked. but he told every girl that he didn't like them. don't let the boy come between you and your BEST FRIEND. there are "friends" and then there are your "Best Friends".
2007-11-25 14:01:16 · answer #6 · answered by x's & o's 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should defiantly tell her. tell her the truth maybe she'll understand. if she really cares for you and wants u to be happy she wont let a boy ruined your friendship. i hope you dont let a boy and jealousy ruined a good friendship... good luck!!!
2007-11-25 14:04:18 · answer #7 · answered by lovely 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋