I got pregnant but i didnt want to as i still dont want. nobody know about it...details inside?

Question

i am a wrestler who loves muay thai , kick boxing and Brazillian Jiu Jitsu and im 11 weeks preggy
do you think if i keep practsing these sports i will have an natural abortion or i need to find an other way to do it because wrestling wont solve my problem?

Answer 1

Are you serious? Whether you want a baby or not, you HAVE one. At eleven weeks, your baby has a heartbeat, brain waves, and tiny fingers and toes. All her organs are functioning. She can make a fist, suck her thumb, and get the hiccups. If her palm is pricked, she will pull away her hand and open her mouth. Here is an ultrasound of a baby at 11 weeks:
http://www.lifeissues.org/ultrasound/11weeks.htm

Your child is an innocent, living, human being, and you need to keep her safe. Take a look at this information:

Free, Confidential Pregnancy Help (including referrals for financial, medical, legal, and housing assistance; free pregnancy tests and ultrasounds; free maternity and baby supplies; pregnancy, parenting, and adoption information; counseling and emotional support):
US: http://www.optionline.org/advantage.asp
International: http://www.heartbeatinternational.org/worldwide_directory.asp

Photos and Video of Abortions, Including 1st Trimester Abortions:
http://www.abort73.com/HTML/I-A-4-video.html
http://www.cbrinfo.org/Resources/pictures.html

Photos and Facts About Prenatal Development:
http://www.justthefacts.org/clar.asp
http://www.abort73.com/HTML/I-A-2-prenatal.html
http://www.studentsforlife.uct.ac.za/foetal%20dev%20photos.html

Abortion Stories:
http://abortiontv.com/Words/truestoriesfrom-mothers.htm
http://www.abort73.com/HTML/I-G-2-testimony.html
http://www.teenbreaks.com/abortion/girlswhoaborted.cfm

Abortion Risks:
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http://www.abortionfacts.com/reardon/effect_of_abortion.asp
http://www.teenbreaks.com/abortion/complicationsgirls.cfm
http://www.bcpinstitute.org/brochure.htm

Abortion Deaths:
http://www.lifedynamics.com/Pro-life_Group/Pro-choice_Women
http://www.afterabortion.info/news/abortiondeaths.html

Do the right thing, and let your baby live.

Answer 2

The only way that you're going to have a miscarriage is if there is a chromosomal abnormality. I suggest you stop all of your sports and be upfront about your pregnancy. It may not hurt the baby (due to all of the amniotic fluid in the placenta), but it could give you painful varicose veins and those don't go away. By this time your baby has a heartbeat, decreasing your chances of a miscarriage. In 2 weeks you'll be on your 2nd trimester, you won't miscarry. Accept the baby or get an abortion this week. The prior of the two is better.

Answer 3

I can very much understand were u are coming from...I am very active and that thought would probably cross my mind. But, you need to make that decision on your own because it will effect you your entire life. Don't take these answers from complete strangers to heart because this is a decision that needs to be made solely by you. I think that the best decision is for you to go through with it. If that did ever come out that you aborted a baby through you sports it will kill any chances you may have in that career and give you a bad reputation. Like I said before you should just go through with it and if you don't want to keep it give it up for adoption because their are a lot of people that wish they were in your position and would want to keep the baby. But, if you really don't want to go through with it get the abortion done by a professional because if it was done like you are saying you might end up being hurt and never have the chance to have children even if you wanted to. Make this decision on your own and remember it is something that you will have to live with the rest of your life!

Answer 4

Wow. Why didn't you use a condom and a spermicide? Or abstain from sex all together?
You have options, but I don't think your chancing physical injury to induce a "natural" abortion will absolve you from the guilt you'll feel, which is what I think you are trying to avoid.
You also risk serious injury to yourself, as the fetus is attached to you. Even if you have it "kicked or punched" out of you, you'll still need medical attention, such as a Dilation and Curettage to make sure no tissue is left behind. What if you had the fetus die without detachment, or partially detach causing internal bleeding, without external signs for a while?
The possibilities for injury are endless.
It is time to be more responsible now than when you decided to have unprotected sex without regard to the consequences. See a doctor and discuss reasonable options.

Answer 5

Now the doctors say that they want a woman to go on with their normal routine.
And since your body is use to this boxing,then killing the baby would be hard to do.
You should know that babies are well protected inside the womb.When I was 8 months pregnant I fell belly first and my dear daughter was perfect thank GOD.
But you need to talk to someone and think about the choice you make.

Answer 6

no i do no longer think of that by employing only persevering with Ur wrestling u might have a organic abortion Cos if it could have been so u could have aborted till now u even knew that u have been pregnant(assuming that u have been doing wrestling meanwhile) yet Wat i individually experience is that u might your self land up in vast problem if u are not getting it aborted asap Cos then the procedures of abortion will become greater risky and annoying for the mothers and additionally that's conceivable that u might sometime land up in an E.R. with heavy bleeding in step with vagina Cos because of the fact the embryo is growing to be interior u Ur uterus is getting bulkier and greater blood is flowing through it so a wrestling kick might besides the actuality that bring about an spontaneous abortion yet then it ma additionally positioned u n a place the place you will be able to alter into mattress ridden for no less than a month or 2 or you will be able to declare sturdy bye to wrestling P.S:starting to be mom is the main alluring journey in this international or so as that they are asserting!!

Answer 7

Erica,

trying to induce an abortion by physical exertion/beating is not a solution. What if the baby was injured but survived?

I would advocate for you to finish the pregnancy and give the baby up for adoption.

I know pregnancy is scary, but you're a third of the way through it already. Another few months will not seem like much when it's over and you wouldn't have the aborted baby on your mind.

I see you blocked your e-mail. E-mail me if you're in the states. I will help you find someone to talk to about adoption. There are plenty of childless couples who want to adopt and people like my wife and I, as well as at least one other respondent, who would rather take your baby than see it aborted.

Answer 8

stress can cause a miscarriage and being physically active as you are. but at the same time your body could have built up a tolerance to being beat up. If you're 11 weeks far you shouldn't risk it and go see a doctor for an abortion if you're not wanting ot have it. otherwise you may just have to keep the baby and it will be too late after 13 or 15 weeks. i can't remember what it was but you're hitting the mark soon. next time be more responsible.

Answer 9

NO! If you want an abortion, you need to go get one done by a medically trained professional. DO NOT try to have one by boxing or rough housing, you could just end up damaging the fetus so if you did end up giving birth, the child might be mentally retarded. Please, you need to go talk to a doctor. And for God's sake, tell someone, a trusted friend, parent, cousin, etc. You need to consider your options, you can't keep delaying if you are already 11 weeks pregnant.

Answer 10

well an abortion is not the answer to you question you should be blessed to be pg many people dont ever have the chance to have a child nethier to carry him/her in the wound you should be happy a child is a blessing an if you didnt want kids you should of taken birth control that means that you are not responsible for you action! or was this b.c of rape ? you should thinkg about it