that no matter what you do or say to them, they always consider it wrong?! How do you deal with people like that?
2007-11-25 04:13:13 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Travel ➔ Africa & Middle East ➔ Egypt
hehe yes. I try and try as much as I can to convince them then at the end I leave things up to them and say ok go for it "elli bysheel 2irba ma5roma bit5or 3ala dma3'o"
2007-11-25 06:48:01 · answer #1 · answered by Ruby 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I meet people like that EVERYDAY. Just work retail and you will have an answer for your question.
I first try and reason with the person and explain the situation to them. Then if they are still unhappy, I listen to them. If it carries on, I tell them that I cannot do anything that will make them happy & walk away. Sometimes they get upset even further and ask me to come back so they can perpetuate their misery on me...at that point I tell them to their face - you are miserable and I cannot help you any further - I'm sorry.
Some people just cannot be helped! They are so miserable, and I honestly believe they get pleasure out of making others feel their misery and unhappiness. I never believed this until I saw people living it (working retail). I just could not understand why a person would subject themselves to sheer misery and displeasure perpetually? It seems that is what they thrive on as humans and it is what makes them live (the interaction of misery), it is now their lifestyle and they are completely unaware of it.
Unfortunately not everyone develops a thick hide. I have developed it - and sometimes I have to rethink MY behavior so I can be normal and receptive to regular people. Interaction with humans develops strange habits and behaviours - it can be facinating or really annoying!
2007-11-25 12:28:01 · answer #2 · answered by Noor M 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are some people who are always out to prove to the world that they are better and are more intelligent, such people are difficult.
In such case tell them the opposite and they will consider the right thing and benefit from it, it hardly matters if he / she appreciates or not at that particular moment but sooner or later he / she will realise it.
The other way is that such people listen to very few and i would pass on my message through them.
Or i could prove what i am saying through facts and figures from some creditable source which cannot be denied.
Even after all my efforts he does not realise then i am sure after some major disaster (if he survives) he will have to change his attitude.
2007-11-25 12:30:08 · answer #3 · answered by Raj 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maftekersh belsorah elsoda awy di ya fara7, bas law dah 7asal, yeb2a elsha5s da beyekrahny for some reason, which is not a reasonable one for sure, and about my reaction: I would stay as away from them as I can, such a hatred cannot be healed or at least needs huge effort which may go in vain at last, so why aslan with someone beykrah nafso asasan?
2007-11-25 13:28:46 · answer #4 · answered by Green visitor is back :D 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes unfortunately and after expending a whole lot of energy on trying to meet their needs and standards you realise.What the h**l am I putting myself though all this for?
Just to try and make someone I don't even like or have anything in common with happy, knowing that I am never going to be able to achieve it anyway!
2007-11-25 20:15:13 · answer #5 · answered by sistablu...Maat 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
a lot, ignorant fellows.....who hate me no matter what...like I am not human....and the worst thing is I didnt do anything wrong (i suppose), yet I am seen as some sort of criminal...(maybe they hate my beliefs???)
I would say most members of an entire section of my extended family does that...They call me a foreigner who does not understand any of their culture...They think i am some sort of goodlookin snob who cant think, who is unlikely to succeed in life...
In their eyes I am not a family member - I am a foreginer to them....
How i deal with them? I dont! I continue in my usual behaviour...try my best to be polite (and do so), take insults softly, and most importantly quietly stow away from unnecessary conversations.......
2007-11-25 13:18:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yes my parents nothing i want to do is good enough for them and they only want me to do what they want. I never ask them if i am right in what i want i just ask for support as i have to learn from any mistakes i make not them.
I deal with them by doing exactly what i want and even sometimes not telling them my plans as i don't need their permission at my age now.
2007-11-25 13:55:23 · answer #7 · answered by Crazy girl 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my sister does that sometimes. if i say something, she always trys to prove me wrong.
and this kid in my biology class thinks hes the smartest kid there (hes even addmited thinking hes the smartest in the class, when in fact, he doesn't even do his homework or study for tests, and he has a C in the class. then he clames that he got a C with out even trying, and he could get an A if he wanted to. IS THIS STUPID OR WHAT?)
, and he always trys to prove everyone wrong. theres no way to change there view. i just let him think its right, its not like he'll belive me anyways.
i just ignore them. maybe the'll get the hint.
2007-11-25 12:47:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
MET??
I was born from such a person.
I don't know how to deal with people like that. Right now it is out of my hands, since I have no contact with that person.
2007-11-25 19:55:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
you have to realize that that is the personality of that person and accept it. If they tell you something is wrong, you can tell them that they have all the right in the world to think that, however you do not agree with them.
2007-11-25 12:22:31 · answer #10 · answered by big_reds_blonde 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋