I'm 13 and one month pregnant what do i do?

Question

i didnt tell my family or my boyfriend who is16. I absulutely dont beleve in abortions. i have alot of issues im on probation i have a bad habit of smokeing weed when i get nervese (smokeing alot lately).i drink when im upset and i think my man have a clue cuz every time he wants to smash i tell him to be easy and i think my principal might know cuz he made a comment to me about looking pregnant and i laughed it off

Answer 1

you're 13 you drink, smoke and you pregnant. You got yourself into so get yourself out.

Answer 2

WOW. first of all NO principal in his right mind would ever make the comment that a 13 year old girl looked pregnant. At least I'd hope not, and if that is the truth then God help all of our children. SECOND of all, you need to tell your boyfriend and your family. I'm glad you don't believe in abortions, that's great. But drinking alcohol and smoking pot while pregnant is even worse, it could kill or cause damage to your baby. I know you are only 13 years old, but if you act like an adult, you have to face the consequences like an adult. And now you have to take responsibility for what you have done. I would say get a job, but child labor laws are against that. You really are going to need your parents now more than ever, so please speak to them about this as soon as possible. I will pray for you.

Also to little miss glamorous above, your wrong the BABY is a person..even at 2 weeks or less. Abortion is wrong no matter how far along you are you dumb a** little child you are just a child yourself.... go play with barbies.

Answer 3

Wow, you've got a lot on your shoulders. First of all, this seems to be your responsibility because I'm 15 and hear in school all the time about my classmates doing drugs and drinking. I've seen at least 3 girls pregnant and one had her baby the first week of school. Drugs and drinking is wrong for people our age, I plan to have a bright future and I'm sure you can too. Those things will only mess it up. 16 also seems kinda old for you but hey, that's not as important. You need to stop that stuff now. As far as the baby, you're right - abortion is cruel. You have to tell your family, it may be hard depending on what kind of family you have, but you made this decision/mistake and need to accept it along with any consequences. Face it, your family is going to find out eventually. After talking to your family, you both will have to decide what to do. You can't take care of the baby in school so unless your family can, you will probably have to put it up for adoption. It will be tough, but that's why you're not supposed to have sex and get pregnant at 13. Trust me, it's the right thing to do. Good Luck

Answer 4

Sometimes people can tell you're pregnant because you emit a soft glowing light, it's a natural phenomena which occurs to attract a male partner.
That's probably what your principal saw.
You should not drink while you are pregnant, it's fine to smoke weed. If you don't believe in abortion you've pretty much answered your own question. Tell your family when you feel it's the right time, it's your choice what you do with your body, don't let anybody tell you different.

Answer 5

Uh... okay... um well first off if you don't believe in abortion then what the hell are you doint drinking and smoking weed.... that right thier could either kill or *** up your kid really bad... and you don't want that and by the way you need to tell your mom that your smoking weed if she doesn't already know and that you drink and smoke while pregnant.... that way someone can help you with your problem and if your just messing around on the computer then don't because crap like this isn't funny not one bit....

Answer 6

Where do I start? I am a nurse and I used to go into the NICU where premature babies were fighting for their lives on breathing machines because some of the mom's did drugs so please don't do drugs! The second thing is, I was also a teenage mom at age 16 but their was only one difference....I was not living your lifestyle and I took care of my daughter and she is now 13 years old and very healthy and happy. If you have this baby , it sounds like this child will end up taking care of you. Tell your parents and either straighten out or give the baby up for adoption to a loving family.

Answer 7

If you smoke or drink when you are pregnant, your baby is going to have some serious complications. You are too young to drink! && dont mention you are pregnant! If you dont believe in abortion you know that smoking and drinking would kill the baby just as abortion would do. Tell your boyfriend and yoour parents the sooner the better i promise you. Or tell another family relative who you really trust and they might be able to help you out.

Answer 8

First off I would tell you're parents they will be able to help you out. Second off you need to lay off the drugs because they can serious do bad damage to the baby and you're self. Third off you're boyfriend could get in trouble for having sex with you in the first place and why didn't you used any protection. Where you planning on have a baby with you're boyfriend and just to let you know sometime they don't stick around because they don't want anything to do with that baby. You need to talk to someone you trust so you can get the help that you need with this little one. It's a great feeling to be pregnant but you also have to do this for you and the baby.

Answer 9

OMG you are a mess, you need help badly you are so out of control, plus you need to tell your parent s and boyfriend this is something you can't just sweep under the carpet, sooner or later everyone is going to know, plus why are you having sex in the first place your just a child your self. Also the way you are going it won't matter about the abortion because you going to kill the baby yourself with all the drugs you are doing. You need to grow up and take some responsibility for your actions.

Answer 10

If you want this baby I would HIGHLY sagesst you stop drinking and doing drugs. My friend drank, smoked smokes and pot while she was pregnant and now her daughter is haveing alot of medical problems.
If you want to keep the baby, also grow up a bit.
Talk to a trusted adult or someone like that. When I had problems in school I got on Yahoo Chat and talked my problems away to stangers.
You are going to have to tell someone sooner or later, best tell someone you trust and start from there. ALSO know this, you can't hid it forever, sooner or later your going to start showing.

Answer 11

since you dont believe in abortion, theres something you need to decide. remember everything you do your baby does (weed, drinking) you can cause your baby serious health problems, if not death. would you want to live with that on your concious for the rest of your life? if you dont want an abortion, then you need to clean yourself up, no more weed, no more drinking (definately no more drinking!) your endangering your unborn childs life, and thats not cool. when you finally have the baby, you need to decide weather or not you want to give it up for adoption or keep it. keeping the baby will be hard, you'll have to stay clean (no more drug use, no more alcohol) and you'll more than likely not be able to do the things that most teens get to do (because you will have a child)

you need to tell your boyfriend && your parents, you may think your parents will kill you, but they wont, yeah sure they will be disappointed and probably cry and ask themselves a thousand times "how did it happen" but if your old enough to start having sex, smoke weed & drink, then your old enough to take responsibility for what you've done && fess up.