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2007-11-25 02:14:27 · 24 answers · asked by ♪♥*B.B.K*♥♪ 7 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Expectation in matter of feelings & emotions & not things.
2007-11-25 02:28:57 · update #1
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2007-12-01 18:40:46 · update #2
Yeah, you're right, dear. You should as much as possible stand on your own feet and pave your own destiny. I have learnt from life experience that if you expect too much from someone, you are most likely to get deceived many times and this pains. If you really want to achieve something today, you should build the castle with your own hands. If you're talking about feelings and emotions, then you just keep on loving and sending it to everyone without expecting anything in return. Be positive at al times. Don't let the mind be diverted by negative thoughts. Because for those who don't have anyone to love them, there is 'Someone' above who is watching over these people. Cheer up and live for the world!
2007-11-30 00:40:43 · answer #1 · answered by World Vision 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
After much trying and betrayal and hurt, I concluded that anything "too.." is not right. Balance to everything is of crucial importance. Being too good is enemy to being good. Being too easily forgiving is an enemy to forgiving. Words and attitudes really lose their meaning when used in exaggeration . Teaching people is by no means punishment. You cannot forgive someone but you can explain to him WHY you can't do so. Explain what has really hurt you, explain that we are in all this together and if he keeps on doing evil things he will surely receive such behavior some time in his life.. I believe that the hardest lessons are the ones given with Love. They are hard but are the only ones that really can make the other person better. Relationships are not only peaches and cream.... Both parties should know that all kind of behaviors have consequences. The people we love are not garbage bins. Patience has limits. People have self respect. And most of all, Love's color is not exclusively Pink.
2016-04-05 21:31:09 · answer #2 · answered by Erica 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
100%. Expectation, generally leads to disappointment. The Bhagvadgita's message: Do your part dispassionately; the result automatically follows. More you expect, more you are sure to invite pain and anguish. Have good intentions, do things in a righteous way, never bother about results (you are sure to get positive results only if the first two conditions are fulfilled). Whatever you do, you are sure to invite comments (either good or bad) from others. As long as your intentions are good, your actions are on the right track, you should not bother about any comments. The aim should be to act "true to one's conciousness". That will give you definite happiness and bliss!!
2007-11-25 04:01:05 · answer #3 · answered by Suresh K 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let me tell you something I am experiencing right now.
My parents have gone for attending a marriage.They'll be away for the coming week.Its just been a day they have been away and I am already feeling lonely and worthless.You do not realise the value of something until you are deprived of it.
And when you speak of expecting anything from people you love,I feel that the fact that they love you in itself is very rewarding.
2007-11-25 23:26:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are right.
I will put it this way. If you don’t expect any thing in any form then you receive 100%, even if you get a fraction of love or care. And if you have expectations, you will never receive 100%, even if it is more then 100.
2007-11-25 05:28:47 · answer #5 · answered by ADS 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most of know it but can't help but expect so much from others.Our desires and expectations are the main source of our sufferings,pain and anguish.But the moot point is,can we learn to live without such expectations?
2007-11-26 00:30:36 · answer #6 · answered by brkshandilya 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I do expect a lot from those near and dear to me. Not material-wise, but in other ways. (Love, understanding, forgiveness, support.) I offer the same in return to them.
2007-11-25 02:17:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
It is not right to do so. If others give some thing we should accept happily. We should expect reasonably good things from others and give them equally good things also happily..
2007-11-25 02:23:26 · answer #8 · answered by deepak57 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah.............we cant expect too much from anyone...
Too much expectation will spoil the health of a relationship
Have a great day :-)
2007-11-30 13:34:09 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Expectation always makes disappointment and frustration so avoid if you want to be stress free and you want to be made gentle man.
2007-11-25 02:25:20 · answer #10 · answered by Mukesh Purohit 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋