what is it about people that makes them ' confusing ' i.e - why do some people like to confuse you through

Question

things they say and do? - what makes people do this? what is their make up?

i mean through subtle insinuation, saying things indirectly, saying one thing but really meaning another.

ive never been like this so i dont understand this mentality, can someone help me understand this ' mind games ' mentality?

im the sort of person who calls it like it is. strait forward. no head games

Answer 1

my darling friend,...I was born confused!!! I am so sad that I can't get a computer or anyone to fix it...I will be looking forward to answering many of your questions again soon, hopefully before the holidays...always know that you have a friend out here in the atmosphere who cares....take care, and hope to write to you and talk soon xxxx

Answer 2

The way people interact and communicate is usually based on how they were taught to do so. Most people who seem to play mind games or who can not be direct learned these patterns by their environment and their family. We all have learned behaviors from our families, some of them are positive, and useful, and others can create for "confusing" relationships. Many people who have trouble being straight forward were conditioned to be so, to function in that way sometimes for self protection, i.e. if they were to be honest and express their true feelings, they would be punished; or again sometimes it's a behavoir passed on by other family members, just the "family norm" of interacting. Hope this helps!

Answer 3

I don't do it intentionally lol, its just sometimes I want to say something and it never comes out quite how I mean it to, I always mean well, but I seem to make things worse lol.Especially on here, its hard to say what you actually mean without offending some people, I care about peoples feelings so always try to be aware of what I am saying, its just sometimes what I am thinking doesn't quite seem to translate that way on the page.

Answer 4

They say the same things about you, we are all different. As for mind games we all play them, some to make people feel sorry for them and others to make people think they are smarter. Their is a third group, this group thinks is more beautiful and puts down people who do not look like them. Everyone plays games, even I !!!

Answer 5

read: yogananda