Im working in bahrain as a retailer, my boss is an arab, he behaves very rude towards me, they dont respect me at all, they treat me as slave, they think that i have come from a poor background & they scold me for no reason, they dont allow me to even wear any stylish dress because girls wont look at them if i wear them.
Ive finished hell lotta computer courses with a degree too. but i dint find a good job for my studies so i had to work in a place like this, people told me that this is a good place where you can improve your studies and also work, thats why i agreed to work here.
They take lot of work from me, i cannot even walk after i finish working 11hr and go home, im suffering so much, i cannot leave the work also because ive gotta work 2 years for them as ive already signed a contract, & i dont have the guts to speak against these kind of things.
Im sure if my parents come to know that im suffering they would kill my boss & his brother & father who are very rude towards me.
2007-11-24 19:34:10 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Please somebody tel me, what can i do at this stage? only thing i can think off is to suicide.
2007-11-24 19:34:51 · update #1
It's been 3 weeks now since i spoke to my girlfriend, cus of the problem with my timing. but she always keeps sending me messages.
2007-11-24 19:53:57 · update #2
Dear brother, please read the mail which i sent you now.
Cheers!
2007-11-25 01:23:59 · answer #1 · answered by Nafeez Nash 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree, go to Human Resources. What stare do you live in? In CA there are some pretty strict Labor Laws employers must follow. You could probably get your employer in trouble for harassment. Also, there is only so many hours a day and in a week one may work. You should look into you states labor laws.
2007-11-24 19:44:33 · answer #2 · answered by Sassy Shih Tzu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is crap at all jobs...i don't believe in the perfect job...maybe there is a lesson for you at this current job...look for the good in it and focus on that.
human resources might not be a good idea, they might make you suffer even more...or it could be good because they could fire you? my old boss was an arab...i went to hr and and the next day i got fired for harassing him...it was a good thing though :)
just let me say suicide isn't the answer...sure things will work out, good luck :)
2007-11-24 19:44:04 · answer #3 · answered by gette_zoe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Watch some comedy...specifically Don Rickles...comedy is the great "healer" of an unhappy person...
Fight fire with fire...come up with some sarcastically humorous comebacks, and dodge, parry, and thrust with comedy...
Works for me...
Speak softly...
And carry a "big wit..."
2007-11-24 19:39:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Quit that job no matter what they say or do. They have no right to treat you that way. You can do better. Stand up for yourself you'll feel better.
2007-11-24 19:42:13 · answer #5 · answered by mikk 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I AM SURE YOU ARE NOT A COWARD THEN WHY THINK ABOUT SUICIDE ,FACE THE PROBLEMS AND YOUR TRUE AND HONEST DEEDS WILL HELP.ALWAYS THINK POSITIVE AS NEGATIVE THINKING CAN BRING SOME ONE TO A SITUATION WHERE YOU ARE
2007-11-24 19:40:42 · answer #6 · answered by opmehta 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
human resorces or get a new job
2007-11-24 19:37:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
normally all bosses are rude
2007-11-24 19:36:33 · answer #8 · answered by Rana 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋