I've been having sex with this beautiful huge guy, and sometimes it hurts cause I'm short and small... I've never had this problem with anyone before. But my god he's big! Is there anyway I can prevent this pain? I want us to have as much pleasure as possible...
2007-11-24 19:26:50 · 10 answers · asked by self destruct girl 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
It's not that uncommon, I've personally known a half dozen women with the same problem.
Like any other muscles, those can be stretched if you're careful, patient, and do it daily. 5 or 10 minutes if you can, stretched just to where it's uncomfortable but not to where it hurts. Think of it like leg stretches.
Lube up with KY or similar and insert both index fingers, and gently tug left and right for 5 or 10 seconds, straight out on the sides. release, then pull upwards. Back side to side, and you get the idea. After a while, maybe a few days or a week, move to index and middle finger on both sides.
Later on, move on to bunching your fingers in a group of 3, 4 then eventually all five, and trying to expand the opening with gentle constant pressure inwards. A rotating motion helps.
Combine this 5-10 minute routine with kegel exercises, and you'll be amazed at the results in just a few weeks.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kegel_exercise
2007-11-25 02:29:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your vagina can stretch to amazing size. A baby can come out through that hole, no guy is that big. Before you have sex, get yourself wet, or use personal lube. The other reason it may hurt is if your guys penis is long he is hitting up against your cervix. This will also cause you pain. The way around this is for you to be on top, then you can control how far in he goes . Good luck, hope this helps
2007-11-25 08:54:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've had similar problems. There's nothing you can do but do it more!!! lol Eventually you will be able to adapt to sir "big." I had the same problem. The more I had sex with him the less it hurts. I also get some ky just to add some extra lub. Make's it a little more comfortable.
2007-11-24 19:35:17 · answer #3 · answered by Lena 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problem with my husband. Use lots of lube! I use KY or Adam and Eve signature lube from their web site (adamandeve.com). It works a lot better and he probably wont tear you unless you are having really rough sex. If you use a dildo or vibrator beforehand it allows your vagina muscles to relax more also. Just some suggestions! Good luck!
2007-11-24 19:33:54 · answer #4 · answered by Brittany 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
By having 2 or 3 or 4 climaxes orally or digitally or both before penetration will first relax you and also give your brain time to release a natural pain killer.
2007-11-24 22:13:08 · answer #5 · answered by Mr Natural 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've been told the best positions(to use with a large male) are doggy style or you(on top) straddle him.
2007-11-24 19:34:25 · answer #6 · answered by insignificant_other 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Enjoy the pain!
2007-11-24 19:31:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
I'm not sure there is anything you can do. Maybe you'll grow into it. lol.Hmmmmmm............... Lube might work.
2007-11-24 19:30:39 · answer #8 · answered by GoldenHaze 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just keep doing it and you'll get used to it
2007-11-24 20:02:27 · answer #9 · answered by <<< ♥ <<< 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lubricant and we are made to have babie you will adjust ......................
2007-11-24 19:34:12 · answer #10 · answered by Psychologist In The House 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋