Ladies, do you feel angry about this?

Question

A guy had beaten me up for refusing to go out with him... I told him politely that I already had a lover, and he did this to me... :(
Now I had bruises all over and I did try to fight back but I was in pain...

I just felt very upset right now, so I'm here, hoping to cheer up a bit... I don't know this guy and I don't want any trouble... :(

Answer 1

That's terrible! And it makes me feel very angry! Seriously, that guy, how dare he! It's just brutal! I'm guessing you didn't call the cops cos you wanted to avoid trouble, and that's really nice of you (although that guy doesn't deserve your niceness one bit). He had better know what's good for him and not harass you anymore! Really, he should be arrested or something! :(

Anyway I hope you feel better soon. A lot of us here on Yahoo! Answers care about you and feel very indignant on your behalf, and we're on your side! So do try to cheer up ok? :) Take care dearie!

Answer 2

From your profile I gather you are not living in the states and I know the customs and rules are a little different there.

While I know you just want to put what happened behind you, you have to think about the people he has done this to before that, just wanted to put it behind them. Thus doing nothing, and allowing him to do this to you.

If you don’t at least try to do something he WILL do the same to someone else. I know you don’t want trouble and just want everything to go away and be able to forget it. But if you don’t do something now or at least try to stop him you are condemning someone else to the same thing you went though or maybe worse.

I know it is a very difficult thing to do, but you need to try.

Please go talk honestly to your parents and the police.

After that, if you have one in your area, please go talk to a rape-counseling center.
(and yes what he did was rape.)

May Our Creator watch over and bless you and your family.

Answer 3

LOL...that is whatever youre handling now, huh? I would possibly not say I think like I am going insane, I simply think increasingly indignant purpose I think like he will have to KNOW why I am dissatisfied. I are aware of it's no longer reasonable, however that's the best way I think now and then...

Answer 4

These days, many women are abused and they refuse to do anything. But, let's face it: If they don't call the police, severe things can/will happen.
- Call the police.
- Take a long bubble bath.
- Join a club that supports abused women and gives them comfort/support.

Answer 5

I HOPE you had that jack*** arrested for assault! If not, GO do it right away. The longer you put off filing a report against him, it will look suspicious when it gets to court (judge may ask why it took you so long to file charges against the jerk).

Also, get a restraining order out against him ASAP too!!!

Answer 6

Of course it makes me angry. A man like that needs to be tied down and tortured till he dies. A man should never hit a woman.

Answer 7

Do YOU feel angry......that is the question! In the future, I suggest you not put yourself in those kinds of situations where a guy can beat you up and get away with it! Good luck!

Answer 8

That's bull Hun you should definitely get on contact with the local authority's on that one. No one should have to beat on someone. If a man ever hit me a would castrate him!

Answer 9

That's terrible!
Call the police and get a restraining order.

Answer 10

That's horrific & yes it makes me angry. Please go to the police about this, this person is crazy dangerous & you need to protect yourself & to protect any other potential victims of this creep.