Don’t you think everyone should be given freedom to live the life as they want to live?

Question

In the name of friendship and relationship, we try to impose our thoughts on others. It might be a disturbance to their life.

Every one has the right to lead their life the way they want (as long as it doesn’t affect others).

People should respect other’s thoughts and feelings on their life.

I personally believe in democracy not only in the political system but also in everyone’s life.

Sometimes friendship and relationship could be demanding, and could interfere in your normal life. How do you handle these situations?

I also like my freedom. I don’t like to people binding me in the name of friendship or relationship which would curb my thoughts and activities. Sometimes I feel like being in a cage. I always escape and run way from it.

I don’t others influencing your way of life. However I always welcome elders and more experienced people’s suggestions and advices. I respect and sometimes follow them as long as I find them good.

Someone doesn’t like to answer me, I appreciate them. If some one wants to compete with them, I feel that I have already beaten them and there is nothing more to compete and ignore them. If someone finds my selection of best as incorrect, I apologize to them. If someone keeps answering me don’t select their answer as the best, I feel very bad for them. If someone doesn’t want to me send them messages or emails, I respect them. If someone wants to abuse my questions, I laugh at them. If someone answers beautifully, I get overjoyed with them. If someone praises me…. Oh .. no I am already melting with the thought.

I like to give someone freedom. I love the freedom.

Finally my question:

Don’t you think everyone should be given freedom to live the life as they want to live? What is your thought on freedom in individuals life?

Answer 1

Yes and No. It all depends on how far you want to take this question. I for example, work at a place where we detain illegal immigrants. Should "they" all be given a chance to live here freely? Some yes, and some no. It all boils down to why they want to be here in the US.

Answer 2

Yes Gentleman, freedom is very very important for any human.Nobody likes to be a slave of any person or to any thing.

But however we say we have freedom, the real liberation comes only to the enlightened ones.The real binding is with our close ones especially with the wife or husband & with our children. As long as our partner & children are understanding & no problem arises from them, you feel you have the freedom.

Once they are not up to our expectation we will feel the binding towards them.We cannot ignore them.

Always keep distance with any kind of relation ship.

The relationship should be like the water in the lotus leaf.Should have attachment but detached.It's quite easy to say but difficult.Meditation will help one to be in that way.

Never try to escape from them.Try to face them & accept them.We cannot avoid all the people all the time.

Answer 3

Yes, people should be given freedom enough to live their life as they want but a certain bit of control & limitation becomes necessary because if everybody is given total liberty then "everybody would be getting in everybody else's way & nobody would get anywhere . Individual liberty would have become social anarchy ".
" It means that in order that the liberties of all may be preserved the liberties of everybody must be curtailed. "
BUT Everyone should be given the freedom of personal opinion.
Read this prose " On the rule of the road " by A.G.Gardiner.
Good question. :)

Answer 4

People have different moral values, virtues of life and we have to consider them as they are. However there are people who dont care your feelings or they are nonchalant about respect the other's right. These people we need to give more attention that we may be able to attain our freedom to live in the fullest.

Considering there are two factors that affect our freedom; the extroverted and introverted behavior and we should know how to play these different roles of life that triggers sometimes our feeling and emotions. As a temporary resident of this world let's play these so called annoying people. We should know how to avoid and we should know how to welcome it.

Enjoy your freedom.

Answer 5

Goodness! I believe that everyone should be free to do as they wish, regardless of whether we agree or disagree... That is what is so wonderful for me about living here in America. I immigrated here from Ireland back in 1985. My town was bombed off the map due to the IRA and religious wars. It's crazy! We are responsible for only our actions. I don't take freedom lightly. I thank the universe for it everyday. Blessings!

Answer 6

Individual freedom is extremely important. it really is. No one can change the person who we are. No one can except for us. Friendships and all the relationship in this world has limits and limitations that should be followed. And as friends we should all understand it. And I know u r a good friend. I think being a friend is to be able to understand another persons feelings and standpoints in life and accept them. Only a true friend can repect another persons stands in life. I have a lot of friends here in y/a. And I think most all of them know that I am not comfortable revealing a lot of my personal identity. And i admire all of them, because they respect my stand point in life and still try to be friends with me. I think that is true friendship. True friends understand each other. And that is why sometimes I love y/a. Y/a proves to us that, u don't have to see someone in real life to be friends with them. friendship speaks from heart and soul. And those friendship gives privacy, freedom and everything while advicing, loving and admiring each other.

"However I always welcome elders and more experienced people’s suggestions and advices." HEHE I think sometimes us youngsters have good things that we offer. I know u accept it . i Know that 4 a fact. But what u wrote kind made me giggle a bit since most ur friends here y/a are youngsters !!

Ya freedom is soo important. Love and friendship should never be a burden for others. Because Love and Friendship is there to ease the burden, never to make it worst. So.. individual freedom is soo important !!

Answer 7

yes u r rite.....indeed everyone has a freedom to live thier life on their own n their way........its wen parents who are so concerned for us dnt want us to indulge or take wrong paths restrict us from few things...there we feel we are not given the freedom....but its nt tht its actually very good to impose rules on us n we would realize had we not been restricted from this we too would end up doing wrong...!!

n in normal sense too we must know the difference between right wrong good and bad ....theres a very thin margin between these ....once we are aware of it and understand and handle with maturity its ok....but we are not much experienced or mature as our elders so we are blessed to have them to support or guide us through this!!!

bottomline is you have freedom unless u use it in the right way!

Answer 8

de@r gEntle m@n,

I think everyone should be given the right to freedom to live their lives as they want. As life is one's owm property and it should be left onto him/her to decide how he/she wants to lead their life.

Everyone has got different ideas and principles. No one just simply cant put someone's suggestions or laws on anyone. Everyone has different ideas based in their minds.

And on the top, FREEDOM is the right of every individual whether rich or poor. And everyone should be given this right.

One can share suggestions and can influence anyone and can even change anyone but someone cant over take someone's full authority over life.

Life is such a beautiful gift which is granted only once. So i think it should be live to its fullest. As " LIFE IS A MYSTERY TO BE LIVED AND NOT A PROBLEM TO BE SOLVED..."

So just dont allow anyone to take over your life or control your life. As life belongs to you and you yourself is the owner of your own life.

And yes gentle man...You are indeed a true gentle man. You have got such a talent which people rarely have and you have got the enthusiasm to live and enjoy your life to its fullest. And the best thing is that you simply dont pose your suggestions or thoughts on anyone, but infact you give reasons in support of your suggestions....So keep up the good work gentle man... :) ....tc...sweet dreamz...bye....

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Answer 9

As long as you're not hurting someone else, you can have all the freedom you want. You sound like one of the Burners at Burning Man....if not, you should go there some time.....then you'll know the true meaning of freedom....

Answer 10

Individual freedom must be allowed as long as that freedom is not misused in any ways to hurt or to cause damege to anyone/anything. Freedom is our right! all sorts of freedom. freedom to speech and expression. Freedom to follow any religion. personal freedom. Freedom to vote, etc.......... These will only be appropriate if there are certain restriction to it.
eg. lets take freedom of speech and expression. just because we have that freedom it dosent mean we are allowed to speak, preach or do any thing as such to insult anyone, to upset anyone, to speak falsely of others, to speak bad of other religions, ect.... see, there should be certain restrictions in order to preserve peace. other than that I agree with you that freedom should be allowed.
Another eg, would be, lets take personal freedom. Because a person have personal freedom it dosent mean he can do any harm to another person personally or maybe harrase os abuse a person!
It is always good to have a personal freedom but what if that freedom is misused to do bad things like destroy the life of a person or live any bad way they want?
Freedom is good as long as it has its own restriction in order to preserve peace in this world!

Answer 11

We should all live and let live....as long as it doesn't hurt others.

I want to wear a kilt and sporran with matching lacy red tights, and play the bagpipes while I spin and twirl like a dervish........ but my girl said she'll have a baseball bat sewn into her dress and if I she hears even ONE skurling of the wee pipes as we walk down the aisle, well,.......I can expect to suffer a high degree of collateral damage to the aforementioned sporran area.

Where's the love?

Danny (boy)

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