I recently within the last month got in big trouble with the law im not saying how because i dont want people to judge because it was just some mistake that a 15 year old girl made. But my friends like my 3 best friends kinda just stopped hanging out with me since im on probation and i have a strict cerfew and such. This past summer we were like the 4 together we would do everything you would never see us alone. We hung out everyday and always partied together and such. This summer was a blast. Now they go to a different school then me so i never see them. But i feel like i dont have a life and that im just a looser because i dont do anything on the weekends anymore most people know me as the girl who is always with someone and now lately im not like that. So i guess im asking am i a looser because i dont hang out and party with people on the weekends? Or am i just worring too much. Im still really social at school just my grade im not very good friends with so im not close with them.
2007-11-24 16:19:28 · 8 answers · asked by Jace 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
hey, i spend every weekend at home by myself, except for the odd occassion. and all day every weekday with the same people at uni.
does that make me a loser? no. it makes me way cooler than everyone else who goes out and does the same old thing with the same old people every weekend. i think everyone needs some alone time to grow and mature and discover themselves, and you wouldnt want to get sick of your friends or have nothing to talk about!
Make the most out of everything sweety!
2007-11-24 16:35:06 · answer #1 · answered by lolitablackhearts 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is whats called the penalty for your actions. Regardless of what you did; friends shouldn't abandon you because of a mistake you made. More so, this is now a new road you travel, and i say try and make the best of it till things get back to normal. Unfortunately its gonna take time. And NO you are not a looser, you made a mistake and thats all it is. Keep moving forward and try to always look for the positive in all. Soon enough you'll be on a much better track. Good luck!
2007-11-24 16:29:35 · answer #2 · answered by Michael 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how it feels to be on probation and not be able to do the things you used to. ( I was on probation for 6 months) But you are just going to have to deal with it and soon you will be able to do the same things again. And as for your friends they must not be true friends if they are acting like that. And no you are not a loser you are just following the rules you were giving. If you break them you might get longer probation or worse house arrest. So just stick with it and do what you got to do so you can get off and have your old life back. Everyone makes mistakes. So don't worry about it too much and maybe you can even get your curfew moved up to a later time if you are good. I hope this helps and if you wanna talk more about it you can email me anytime. Sexy_devil_101@yahoo.com
2007-11-24 16:36:53 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to worry about you. Whatever you did, you made a mistake and now you have to be accountable for it. If they were your true friends, they would stick by your side no matter what, not turn and put their tail between their legs and run. Don't worry about being social. You are not a loser, you made a mistake. Keep this in mind please, the only difference between them and you is that you got caught. And don't ever let anyone tell you that they are better than you because you got into trouble. If you learned from what you did, then it makes you a better person.
2007-11-24 16:33:32 · answer #4 · answered by pitbull1969 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your friends can not be that good of friends because they are not there for you, although perhaps their parents told them to stop hanging out with you because of your problems. You are not a looser but just a person who is growing up and making the mistakes that many make. Growing is a learning process and I will give you a site which may help with that and help you to make new friends as your self-esteem grows. don't be too hard on yourself but learn from the mistake you made and work to become better in school and as a person. Good Luck to you!!
2007-11-24 16:34:37 · answer #5 · answered by Al B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if they ain't hanging out wif u cusz ur on probation that's stupid real friends are there for ya trough thick and thin and remember evry body make mistakes that's just how it is
2007-11-24 16:25:34 · answer #6 · answered by x33 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry too much. everybody makes mistakes, ive made sum mistakes, but i have my family and friends to help me out
2007-11-24 16:34:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if they were your real friends then they would be with you all the way! they wouldnt have even thought about ditching u! i wouldnt waste ur time worring about them i doubt they are your real friends anyway! im sure u can find better friends then them!!
2007-11-24 16:33:48 · answer #8 · answered by Nikkie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋