Why don't you women just admit that you are ready for more lovers instead of pretending to be a prude because your "needs" or something were neglected.
2007-11-24 15:54:45 · 14 answers · asked by male.confused 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Woman leave first because they fail to communicate their needs to their husbands and fail to communicate with their husbands about his needs. Men are poor communicators generally speaking and are usually tied up making the payments, or fixing something at work or home. When they spend some time trying to find a bit of personal fun away from the burden of responsiblilty they are condemned because they didnt focus the purpose of their pitiful existence trying to please a lazy spoiled woman or ungrateful children.
2007-11-24 16:38:29 · answer #1 · answered by robert j 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Some women do move on to more lover(s) ... so do some men.
I know a woman who does lady's hair .. in a shop full of ladies .. who works long hours .. and listens to so many women's stories.
She told that the majority of women who come into her shop .. and are leaving their men, or have already left their men .. are just sick & tired of the way the men treat them.
Lots of times in a marriage .. the woman talks & talks & talks to their husbands .. trying to get them to really listen to them .. trying to connect to them .. and it seems the man rarely respond to their wife's efforts and pleas. The wife does not have their husband's attention until she has packed her bags .. and is out the door.
This is the one complaint that most all women tell about the down-fall of their marriages.
Also - in this day & age .. she added that women are not bashful about telling if they left their husband for another man .. sooo they usually don't lie about their lives .. and why they left their man.
2007-11-24 16:08:08 · answer #2 · answered by Tara 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
OK- I have to be even handed on this- plenty of men initiate break-ups/divorces for the same reasons. This sounds a little personal. If it is why don't you just ask a question about why your wife/gf left?
2007-11-24 16:00:22 · answer #3 · answered by kttphoenix 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Why do women typically make men initiate everything except divorces & break-ups?" --It would be interesting if any of you guys that claim this could up with at least one credible and authoritative source. Also, I wasn't aware that Kim Kardashian was a *typical* woman.
2016-05-25 06:59:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because men know if they institute divorce they know they will be paying child support so instead of filing for a divorce they cheat on their wives and women are more apt to file for the divorce than to cheat.
2007-11-24 16:06:00 · answer #5 · answered by Al B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, someone is a little bitter. Why is it you assume we initiate divorce because we want something new? Maybe it just didn't work out. Maybe you weren't holding up your end of the bargain. Maybe the two of you didn't make the effort to keep the love alive. It takes two to make it hon, but it also takes two to break it.
2007-11-24 16:03:16 · answer #6 · answered by Hollynfaith 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I have a cousin and two friends that have initiate the break up. They have all done it with the hopes that the guy would give up the other party, become a better partner or prove that they love them enough. It backfired.
2007-11-24 16:18:39 · answer #7 · answered by Louise B 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
lol to this question im seperated and my husband wants a divorce but is to cheap to file and guess what he will be waiting till he does get the dough out of his pocket cuz this chic here doesnt believe in divorce, i took those wedding vows infront of god and thats my belief still married here
2007-11-24 16:47:59 · answer #8 · answered by jewels 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because they are coniving, sneaking, cheating bitches who usually don't know what they want until they don't have it anymore. Sorry that's painting with a broad brush, but it holds true for me lately.
Only when a man completely lets go and pursues other interests and possibly other members of the opposite sex is he then worthy of the chase and by then you no longer want then because you realize they were nothing but a pain in the neck.
2007-11-24 16:40:00 · answer #9 · answered by Dan 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
ive gotten a divorce because i couldnt stand my husbands ways. he did nothing in the house to help or for me. he was judgmental,verbally abusive and thought the world revolved around him. it had nothing to do with another guy. why would any woman want another man to take care of after doing it for years ?
2007-11-24 16:08:13 · answer #10 · answered by marilynfsmgm 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋