Stop takeing everything to heart? Especially when its about someone who i care about?
if your not to sure what i meen, what im trying to say is how do i not let words get to me so much?? :)) !
Thanks you all for helping, ill vote best answer
2007-11-24 14:49:45 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Be aware of your previous mistakes...?
2007-11-24 14:54:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to be more skeptical. Not really skeptical, just a little. When someone gives you some new information, which is all talk is, you need to put it in the "in basket" and say to yourself "Hmmmmm - what's this?" You need to take some time and look over new information like a piece of junk mail - because you get told a lot of junk - we all do. People want to hand talk out to you like they are paid to do it. Take a look at it objectively, and decide if you want to file it under "True" under "Maybe" or drop it in the trash and forget about it.
2007-11-24 22:55:20 · answer #2 · answered by Amy R 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You just need to make the conscious decision to not take everything personally. Because, you will find that some people are cruel to everyone, its not about you, but about their anger, and you got in the way.
As you get older, it will be easier to do this, just try to keep an open mind about the situation. You may not be able to control the situation, but you can control your reaction to it.
Hope this helps!
2007-11-24 22:59:15 · answer #3 · answered by terry 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is the hardest thing, to not let words hurt. they cut right through you. they matter, You get a little better at not bleeding as you grow older , but there are people we love that one word from them can devastate you. I haven't gotten much better about it and I'm 56 years old. people i don't know i can shrug that off but not with one that are close to me. You tell me how to do it.
2007-11-24 23:11:42 · answer #4 · answered by redd headd 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
People always talk and most of the time what they have to say is not worth listening too. As you get older, you will understand more. Easier said than done, but try and just shrug off what is said to you...
2007-11-24 22:54:04 · answer #5 · answered by Suzi 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh jeez you're just like me...your heart breaks easily... there isn't anything you really can do...I'm sorry you'll just have to live with it but never let it make you angry...however, sista if you get an answer to this one let me know
2007-11-24 22:55:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try to make yourself busy
2007-11-25 01:23:00 · answer #7 · answered by yusdz 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just tell yourself you can't please everyone and who cares what people think. You don't have to live with them or they don't pay your bills......or do they?
2007-11-24 22:54:16 · answer #8 · answered by ♥c0c0puffz♥ 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋