I don't want a divorce so soon. He is not interested in porn, or other woman. Should I stay or should I go?
2007-11-24 14:19:43 · 17 answers · asked by youngmom 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Have a talk with him. explain since he is no longer interested in sex would he mind if you seek else where for someone to satisfy your needs sexually. Explain you do not want a divorce but you need some sexual attention.
I know if I were in this way, I would gladly allow my wife to have another sex partner. It is only fair. If he is understanding he should allow you to have one or two sex partners. But keep it to one or two and make extra efforts to please your husband in every way you can do so.
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2007-11-24 14:27:07 · answer #1 · answered by pinelake302 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Try to encourage him to get medical help. This is probably because of some medical reason perhaps. If I were you, I would exhaust all and I mean ALL other means of improving your situation with your husband before even thinking of leaving. Make sure you tell him how this makes you feel. Also, I wouldn't recommend a lover!
2007-11-24 14:53:48 · answer #2 · answered by zaytox0724 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Has he seen a doctor for a physical lately? There are several medical conditions that can sap his libido... High blood pressure, diabetes, low testosterone level to name a few. All of these are readily controlled and will bring the horniness back into your man.
2007-11-24 14:28:36 · answer #3 · answered by old beatnik 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say this, as I know what sexual hunger is, but you are married, so no flings are possible.
It's really a question of which do you value more, your marriage or your sex? Ideally, your husband would be more into sex...maybe some medication?
2007-11-24 14:36:57 · answer #4 · answered by Ben YY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have his testosterone checked! Older men have a lower testosterone level that decreases or eliminates altogether that precious sex drive. If he is, I suspect, the doc can prescribe him testosterone so he's on a roll again!
2007-11-24 16:29:06 · answer #5 · answered by zen 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell you what you do: Ask him that question. Say "So honey, since I love you and you love me and obviously we shouldn't get divorced, how would you like me to satisfy MY sex drive? Shall I get another lover?"
Bet that perks up his inner fire with a quickness.
2007-11-24 14:27:01 · answer #6 · answered by ret2go83 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
your going to leave because his sex drive slowed down? Don't be a skank. Why dont you find out if a pill will work. You could also try being supportive and not a sl*t.
2007-11-24 14:34:15 · answer #7 · answered by natasha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you marry him primarily for sex? How much do you love him for you to hurt him by having a lover and lost your fidelity?
2007-11-24 14:33:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
For better or for worse..remember? Talk to him and see if you can get him to see a doctor maybe there is a medical reason he has no sex drive.
2007-11-24 14:28:50 · answer #9 · answered by Who Knew? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Make him an appointment with a doctor see if he will try Viagra, Levitra or Cialis.
2007-11-24 15:33:21 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋