2007-11-24 14:19:12 · 9 answers · asked by shajones41 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
That is a Q that only you can answer.
I've been separated almost a year and have no intentions for reconciliation.
Sometimes, I think about dating but, when I really think about it I know there is NO Way I'm ready. I was married for 10yrs that could make a difference.
I wont start dating until my divorce is final (signed, sealed, and delivered) I want to feel completely free.
However every relationship is different.
I would suggest you make sure (if you haven't done so all ready) that you take the time to get to know who you are, what you believe in, and what you want out of life before you start dating again.
You are the leader of your existence.
2007-11-24 15:01:18 · answer #1 · answered by patience 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you feel ready then definetly. Some people may want alittle "rest time" to recover themselves & no guy drama. Whenever your ready you can start. Make it light and don't jump into anything too serious. Don't be all looking for a date, let them come to you. Never make divorce or seperation a topic on a date. Its very depressing. If you plan on or could see yourself going more serious with someone remember to tell them in the early stages of the relationship or else they could consider it "lying or a BIG secret".
2007-11-24 14:25:18 · answer #2 · answered by Sarah F 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes if you not are planning on reconcialing the marriage then date away. Let the men know that you are technically still married some guys may be offended by dating a women who is seperated but not divorced.
2007-11-24 14:25:23 · answer #3 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its alright to start dating as soon as your ready, well as long as your not trying to get back with your spouse
2007-11-24 14:34:59 · answer #4 · answered by vjustmehere 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you are ready to start dating go for it
2007-11-24 14:30:43 · answer #5 · answered by Lisa W 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally I think it is not healthy to date until you have been DIVORCED for a year. Most people are not together enough to date sonner than that and end up in weird relationships AGAIN.
2007-11-24 14:23:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
um yes. i think its ok nine minutes after being seperated from your spouse. done is done.
2007-11-24 14:27:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
its healthy if youre ready
2007-11-24 14:22:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeppers.
2007-11-24 14:29:32 · answer #9 · answered by pitch black 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋