and hurted your feelings with what they say? Do people see themselves on mirrors?
2007-11-24 13:25:48 · 13 answers · asked by ? 6 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
It is not about anyone of you here, it is somebody in my real life.
2007-11-25 06:36:15 · update #1
Eagle woman I respect you also and I'm not blaming you. (((Eagle Woman)))
2007-11-25 06:37:13 · update #2
um, no they have no right to blame you, but I am not really sure what you are being blamed for. And no, people don't see themselves in the mirror. I can't tell you how many people I know that complain about thinks they do constantly. Its a sad state of affairs, but thats the world for ya.
2007-11-24 13:29:09 · answer #1 · answered by snshnbtrflis 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well I would hope that if you were ignoring me that you would give me a reason before you ignored me. I am alot like Jack I really HATE being ignored. I like things to be open and honest. If I hurt someone I want to know RIGHT THEN not a week later. Friends should be able to talk about these things up front and not play silly games. Life is way too short for lies, games and hurt feelings. If this is a friend then go to them and talk. Do not go to bed angry, let them know you love them..after all you never know what the last words you may say will be. Make sure they are nice words..just in case.
love ya and hope it all works out for you
2007-11-24 21:56:54 · answer #2 · answered by FallenAngel© 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
It depends for what reason, if when he talks you move away or you don't even take the time and listen to him, well i think yes they do have the right to blame you but not to insult or disc you. The only reason where they wouldn't have the right is if your doing an exam and someone keeps on calling you for an eraser or an answer, or if your sick, that's the only exception i can get.
2007-11-24 21:32:08 · answer #3 · answered by molkanic 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
{{{Zalem}}} If they were ignoring you, the remarks may not have been directed at you, but I know they can still hurt. I have friends that I have come to care for that are from totally different belief systems and I sometimes see them post things that if they directed them at me, it would hurt deeply. I have to accept that we are different. Please tell me it wasn't me! I'm a widow and I try not to look at young, handsome men except in a motherly way. Sorry, I'm just not feeling this mother thing for you, so I try not to gawk at your hot self!
2007-11-24 21:48:10 · answer #4 · answered by One Wing Eagle Woman 6 · 5⤊ 0⤋
In lamens terms do you mean, if someone did something to you and you did it back to them they have the right to blame you?
I dont see the right to blame in any written document or right beside the freedom of expression.
2007-11-24 21:31:23 · answer #5 · answered by Stefano 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Two wrongs don't make a right; it is always best to be honest about how you feel and keep the lines of communcation open so there are no misunderstandings.
2007-11-24 21:46:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it's just a misunderstanding, Zalem. Of course, I could be wrong, but it is always better to give the other person the benefit of the doubt and try to understand and forgive. Hope everything works out for you and your friend! (((((Zalem)))))
2007-11-24 21:57:03 · answer #7 · answered by Lydia 5 · 6⤊ 0⤋
I think they must be operating under the notion of I'll treat people however I want to treat them, but everybody had better treat me well. There is nothing wrong with you ignoring them if that's how they have treated you.
2007-11-24 21:29:27 · answer #8 · answered by Purdey EP 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
some people like to fault others prematurely. I've noticed that a lot in life.
but also, many people don't realize their own shortcomings. i've seen people arguing where one yells to other 'stop yelling!'... lol.
2007-11-24 22:42:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
People can be quite selfish, I'm sorry for them.
2007-11-24 22:52:16 · answer #10 · answered by Brilliant 1forHIM 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋