Yes. I lost my wife to a sudden burst aneurysm in her brain while she was pregnant with our daughter at age 27. My daughter was 8 1/2 months along and survived by emergency c-section, but my wife went into an immediate coma and died 4 days later. It the most tragic moment of my life and also the most joyeous time because of the birth of my daughter. That was 20 years ago. I have a constant reminder of the event, but I have learned to move on and live my life. There are still times I miss her, especially around our anniversary date or when I see my daughter do or say things in a way that her mother would have done.
I often wonder why she was taken so early. She was such an angel, but then we were only married for four years. Who knows how our live would have turned out or who we would have become together. I know for me, it made me less fearful to take chances and go for my dreams instead of holding back. It really put things in perspective.
2007-11-24 09:51:09
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answered by dezynor 3
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Wow, thats some really sad answers! Im real sorry to hear of everybodys loss! Especially the 15 year old nephew!
I've too lost loved ones. You never truely get over it and this time of the year doesn't help but as long as you keep them in your thoughts and heart then a part of them still feels very much alive!
2007-11-24 09:44:20
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answered by Lady B 4
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I lost my brother last year. He was 38 and was killed in a hit and run by a drink driver.
It is all still very raw, but we try to be strong for his wife and 2 kids.
I hear that it gets easier with time - I am still waiting. I was very close to my bro (he was a year older than me) and thinking of all the fun we had at kids help. I could literally cry at any time.
2007-11-24 09:42:17
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answered by Anonymous
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I had an older cousin that got hit by a drunk driver. Her boyfriend who was with her was killed instantly; my cousin was driving, thrown from the car, and her head was split open. She died a few days later. After that, a light was put at that intersection. I still miss her and she has been gone for about 30 years!
Then my mom died nearly eight years ago from strokes and diabetes. We were best friends. I miss her more than anyone.
2007-11-24 09:42:00
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answered by honey 6
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My Gran 3 months ago - it was so sudden. I think about her everyday. I cry myself to sleep over her some nights - I know I should move on but I can't. It's still sore.
My neighbour - I can't remember her that well because I was seven but we were quite close.
My great uncle - he was the best. Full of life and energy - then he had a heart attack.
I'm really sorry to hear of your loss - it'll get better soon. Chin up.
2007-11-24 10:07:17
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answered by Anonymous
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My father died of cancer at the age of 52, two weeks after my first son was born. He 'waited' for him to be delivered safely before he finally gave in to it. I am grateful that he had a short time of being a grandfather and I have the photographs and lovely childhood memories to pass on to my children.
2007-11-24 11:11:46
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answered by Ange 4
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yeah, someone I didn't know very well, but i knew died in a car accident. We met at a football game, and it was a great night, and we kissed, never saw him in person again, we went to two different high schools...he died two years later, right before graduation. I saw the news of the car accident, and all I could remember was how magical that night had been, and how sad I was that I'd never see him again. I mean I knew that I would never see him again, but...well, you get it.
I choose to remember that night.
2007-11-24 13:48:28
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answered by Princess Ninja 7
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Yes-
Life has been a tragady I think my family has a curse..Or something 5mths apart my grandmother was murdered..Than 5mths later my cousin was killed in drive by.It sucks!
I pray for them and never forget there memory as I go thru life-
And I agree don't forget about them..Have a good.day!
-sorry about ur loss as well but remember is the memories and life they left behind that make's you special to have gotten to known them.
2007-11-24 09:42:42
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answered by Anonymous
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Yes, back in 2002 I lost my brother to suicide. I almost didn't make it through that black time in my life. I still don't understand the reasons, but I do know I miss him more than I could ever possibly say!
2007-11-24 11:10:34
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answered by dyingatwork 6
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YES!! I lost 3 people that I was very close to. There's not a day goes by that I don't think of them.
2007-11-24 09:40:26
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answered by Crystal 5
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