2007-11-24 09:37:00 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
They have won your heart so they figure why put out anymore if we have got them already. It is normal for woman to drop the whole sex issue after a few years of marriage it becomes to normal for them. Children also make a huge change in this aspect they are now a mother instead of your sexy wife who wants kids they have them already you become#2. This is just a fact and reality that is why getting out and doing stuff as a couple is important reason there are babysitters. If this is your problem get a babysitter and treat your wife to a nice night on the town who knows maybe you'll get lucky.
Women are much different then us men they need communication and feelings involved before they have sex
men on the other hand being one myself just enjoy the deed as in pleasure and the sexual release.
If you are a married man listen more and communicate more with your wife. You'll see a different side of her if she see's your putting more time into getting to know her and what makes her happy then just waiting for sex. She will
be more open to being intimate with you.
Really woman want a sensitive guy that will listen to all the crap and if we do that we may see some affection. I have found out over the years that communication is like an On/Off switch with a lady stop talking no sex start listening and communicating well sex starts again.
Women like to see that there husband wants them to around because they love them and cherish the time with them they do not want to be looked at like a piece of meat or a sex slave.
2007-11-24 13:01:59 · answer #1 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say that married women with children may become less sexual and seem more inhibited because their role has shifted from a sexy wife to a mother...and sometimes it may become difficult to shift back and forth in those roles...
2007-11-24 09:43:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
When you get the answer to that one let me know. I was living with my wife for a year before we were married and sex was no problem. Anytime I wanted it and when I didn't she did. It was great.
After marriage it slowed down and really got boring. Now it's all but stopped. I've tried most everything I can think of to make it better and did everything she has sudgested to make it better but it hasn't been like it was or anywhere near since she got the ring.
2007-11-24 09:58:25 · answer #3 · answered by troubled 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many people havetried to explain this over the years but there is no clear cut reason. There are too many variables. Each person is different so there are too many reasons. All that being said I think like some one above said ti becomes less of a priority and they veiw themse;ves as moms and not vixens.
2007-11-24 09:49:56 · answer #4 · answered by Cam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is not true at all. When me and my husband were dating we would have sex 3-6 times a day. We couldn't keep our hands off each other. When we got married his sex drive just started slowly fading to where it was maybe once a day and now it is 2-3 times a week if I am lucky. I try so hard for his attention. I need it everyday at least once but 2 times would be better. Guys do it to... They just don't admit it to their buddies.
2007-11-24 09:44:44 · answer #5 · answered by Meghan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's just "women who are married". Just because you get married doesn't mean you suddenly go from some lusty, horny person to not wanting sex! Women who were sexually conservative before marriage will be even more so when they are married because you get comfortable and don't feel like having sex as often.
2007-11-24 09:41:07 · answer #6 · answered by bestadvicechick 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that both men and woman that tends to happen
at times. Even before marriage that could happen.
Common factors are job,kids,other important daily things
take over having sex. Therefore,everything else takes
over and less of a sex drive at times for a man or a
woman.
2007-11-24 11:02:01 · answer #7 · answered by lostgrandma1967 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To make us husbands go crazy. Then when they all of a sudden they become sex driven we go even crazier wondering why they weren't like that before.
This question is too hard for the male mind to understand.
2007-11-24 09:45:09 · answer #8 · answered by Johnnyo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are assuming that this is ALL women and it's not! I'm married and I'm very sexual and very uninhibited. I can't get enough sex, and that is my problem. You just got lucky with one who is the way she is.
2007-11-24 14:39:11 · answer #9 · answered by Lisa I 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Proves you don't know ALL married women doesn't it.
2007-11-24 15:56:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋