ok hi everyone! i'm a little worried as i'm pregnant and in the month it happened, i changed partners, i last slept with my ex boyfriend on the 20th july and then i got (slept) with my current boyfriend on the 26th july, i'm not sure but i think my last period was 12th july-so that would make ovulation around 26th? (i told the doctor i didn't know when it was as i wasn't 100% sure so she arranged a dating scan and that says i'm due on the 19th april) is there any chance that the baby could be my ex's? i know you might say i should've been more careful and you'd be right but its happened now and i'm only human, i'm not sleeping around i've just ended 1 and started another relationship! all the dates seem to tie in with it been my current boyfriends i think.....
2007-11-24 08:26:03 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
also i just want to add, when i was last with my ex (20th) we did use a condom, but before he put it on, he put his lil man in me a couple of times, only for a few seconds, and then we used the condom so there was no 'actual' ejaculation in or near me, but theres the issue of precum thats why i'm worried. i've tried to make this sound as uncrude as possible so please forgive me if it sounds horrible. any answers appreciated!! (and then when me and my current boyfriend got together we didn't use protection)
also, i've had a dna test taken, i had my blood taken (as babies cells are in maternal blood) and swabs from my current boyfriend, but waiting for the results is a nightmare! i just wanted some other peoples opinions.
2007-11-24 08:26:42 · update #1
Only true test is a paternity test. I'm sorry to say, but yes you should have been more careful and used a condom with both without a little in out play. But the past is behind us and your actually right along side of being pregnant with me. I would honestly have a scan with your ex, and if it's not his after the baby is born that it's a sure thing for your current boyfriends. If he doesn't doubt that it's his when the baby comes out, be glad that he's going to be with you through this whole ordeal. Good Luck!
2007-11-24 08:34:49 · answer #1 · answered by Mum of 2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, right here is going.. besides the actuality that the prospect of pre-ejaculate semen impregnating you is small, it continues to be conceivable as your ex had inserted his penis interior you till now employing the condom.. it is so lots greater possibly that your modern-day boyfriend is the daddy as he did no longer use any variety of contraceptive in any respect.. in case you're somewhat that hectic you ought to get a DNA attempt accomplished, they're high priced nonetheless yet i'm afraid that it is the only way you would be attentive to for confident.. (you ought to constantly only attempt for the paternity of your modern-day significant different in case you dont want the ex to be attentive to..) sturdy success.. P.S. as a ways because of the fact the guy who responded above with "stylish..." who gave you the superb suited to decide yet another guy or woman, have not YOU ever made a mistake???
2016-09-30 02:34:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you used a condom with your ex most likely your current b/f is the father. I hope that whatever the outcome that the father steps up and supports your baby.
2007-11-24 08:34:08 · answer #3 · answered by Ryan's mom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i didn't know you could do a dna test with your blood i thought you'd have to wait or get an amnio thing done...but theres really no way to tell who the father is. the dates can be off by a few weeks. the best bet is just do the dna test.
2007-11-24 08:32:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
None of our opinions matter. Only the DNA test results matter.
You should have made sure you took safe sex precautions so you wouldn't have this kind of accident and worry.
Now you just have to try to learn to be patient and wait for the results of your mistake.
2007-11-24 08:37:41 · answer #5 · answered by Nedra E 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd say ur surrent bf, but DNA will only give you the definate answer
ETA - kelly h - yes dna tests can be done when the baby is still in mothers womb
2007-11-24 08:31:20 · answer #6 · answered by a_hopkins86 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u can t get a dna while ur baby is unbron that silly. well i think it ur new mans then it obvious but u have had sex with 2 men so could be any of them
2007-11-24 08:31:06 · answer #7 · answered by kelly h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My moneys on the current boyfriend. Definitely. Well, not definitely, but it probably is the newsy.
2007-11-24 08:29:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be either feller but my money's on your current guy. Good luck!
2007-11-24 08:37:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 guys in less than a week, and that's not sleeping around? oh go on
2007-11-24 08:31:11 · answer #10 · answered by evrettbgo 5 · 1⤊ 3⤋