and y do people do it so often
2007-11-24 07:36:01 · 5 answers · asked by curious :) 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I do not think sex is the ultimate way for someone to show their love for their spouse...
Kissing is far more intimate - men do not usually kiss a whore, and yet have no problem having sex with her...
Being there for each other, providing comfort and support, sharing life's ups and downs, sharing memories and fun moments those are the ultimate ways to show love. Choosing to please your spouse and give more than you get - that is the ultimate way to show love. Sex - anyone can do it with anyone and it can mean nothing at all... leave you empty - almost the antithesis of love...
Sex with love though, while not the ultimate way to show love, can be fun, moving, binding and even spiritual experience... and it takes a while, generally speaking, to get there. Involves lots of trust and a willingness to be open and vulnerable...
We have sex often to make sure our species survives - is a basic instinct, like the one for safety and shelter, food and drink... not love...
2007-11-24 07:44:32 · answer #1 · answered by Gatubella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Although the act of sex is a fine way to show your love towards one and other, there are times in relationships where a kiss or a hug means so much more. Regardless of what sex we are there are times when all we really want to do is to kiss and cuddle a bit and not make love.
2007-11-24 07:39:24 · answer #2 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It feels great and it's not as simple as a kiss. Just like my husband making dinner for me is a greater show of his love than grabbing me a snack from the cabinet. Kissing is important too, it shouldn't replace sex.
2007-11-24 07:43:19 · answer #3 · answered by Jen70 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is the ulimate way for some people only .. I think mainly for guys ,, maybe.
Anyone can have sex .. easily. So why would that be the ultimate?
There are more ways to show real love.
2007-11-24 07:44:23 · answer #4 · answered by Tara 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Im not so sure I agree... i think kissing is more expressive. Men often see sex as a physical act.. & kissing generates more emotion (or stimulation lol) .... I couldnt have sex without plenty of kissing... im a kiss slut! lol x
2007-11-24 07:46:20 · answer #5 · answered by Carol x 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋