I sometimes find myself in situations that I wish I could say "No" in, but I don't know how to do it kindly. For example, some of my classmates ask if they can borrow one of my assignments. Obviously, I don't want anyone to cheat off of me. Another example is when people ask if I could do a favor for them, and I want to be kind and help out, but don't have the time. How can I say "No" kindly? Please give me any good suggestions you may have. Thanks!
2007-11-24 07:34:02 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
For all bad situations, it is normally best to make an excuse to leave. Also, tell them the truth. It helps, and you didn't do anything rude or wrong. The person will normally respect that. (Though I don't know about the person who wants to borrow your assignment.)
2007-11-24 07:39:24 · answer #1 · answered by Rebecca 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well... here is an example of how you can say, "No" kindly.
My best friend's ex-fiance asked her for coffee this past 4th of July. He's a total jerk who left her for her ex-best friend.
Anywho... after he asked her all she did was calmly say, "No Thank You."
If people want to borrow your assignments to cheat off of you, just let them know (in a calm voice) that you don't want people copying your answers.
If someone wants you to a favor for them and you don't have the time, just let them know, (calmly), "I'd love to help you out, but... I am really busy and I just don't have the time right now. I'm sorry."
If you do have the time but just don't want to do it you can always let them know, "You know... I really don't think that I am the right person for the job. However... if you talk to _______ I am sure she might be able to help".
That way you are giving them another idea and option to look towards.
Good Luck.
2007-11-24 07:47:50 · answer #2 · answered by Operator 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ugh I have the same problem, I feel guilty if i say no. Usually what I have been trying to do is explain why I am saying no without just coming out and saying no. I never say anything to the effect of I don't want to cos then they person will call you selfish. If someone wants you to do a favor give an excuse that you are busy but that would totally help them if you had the time, I've used that and it's worked.
2007-11-24 07:38:19 · answer #3 · answered by sparrowszealot 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-30 02:30:01 · answer #4 · answered by cogliano 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh i know it can be awkward when you don't want to insult people or make them mad but the reality is you can't always say yes, so you have to learn to B.S. people. What you can do is say "oh i would love to but....." & throw an explanation in there. like i'm in a rush or i already have something planned sorry! it doesn't have to be the greatest explanation or even true. (this is where white lies are ok) Whoever is asking you should accept your decline & leave you alone. If they don't for some reason then they are classless ******* that should be ashamed of themselves so who cares what they think anyway.
2007-11-24 07:43:29 · answer #5 · answered by SWEET CHICKEN MEAT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For the assignments, how about, "I'm afraid we'd both get in trouble if you copied mine." And for the other things where you don't have time, why not say that? And suggest someone else who might be able to help if you can think of anyone.
2007-11-24 07:37:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No never seem to be a kind word ,it doesn't matter how you say it, no is no!
No! is a negative word that makes us not nice in the eyes of whom we know, if you say no in a timid way they will never accept it for what it is , if you want to make a point you must be positive and say what you think and if it is no! they will ask someone else the next time.
2007-11-24 07:42:01 · answer #7 · answered by bornfree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be polite and say "I'm really really sorry but I have a lot of stuff going on right now!" and if someone wants to cheat off of you then dont even try to be polite just say "ummm no, you can do your own work"
2007-11-24 07:38:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"I would love to help out, but I don't have the time, the space, the money, the common sense, ... I understand - I too find it hard to say no.
Borrowing is a biggy with me. No I'm sorry, it isn't in format you could understand.
2007-11-24 07:38:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
relax and just simply shake your head no or try saying no sofly with a soft relax face. If they keep asking just say "Sorry but no." and the phone for the I don't have time just say " I would like to help but I don't have the time. Sorry"
Hope this helps a little
2007-11-24 07:39:13 · answer #10 · answered by demitria c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋