They have slept with before marriage? I think 99% of women lie about this. My wife says 10 I think the number is higher!
2007-11-24 07:07:13 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No, as the men don't.
I think both would be appaled at the totals, so we have a convenient lie and never ask the question again
2007-11-24 07:17:54 · answer #1 · answered by Experto Credo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think what the man or woman have done before they became involved with each other is no one else's business including their partners. Had they known who they would become married to they might have been different. What they do after the marriage is what counts. No, do not tell the partner. It is over and done with.
And most important is to NOT ask.
2007-11-24 07:15:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Choo Choo I imagine that you are probably correct. Funny when guys are discussing this with their male friends they tend to lie and make the number larger then it really is. But when discussing it with their life partners they exaggerate the opposite way as do females with their partners most of the time. This is natural as nobody wants to be seen or viewed as loose when they were young and foolish.
2007-11-24 07:12:22 · answer #3 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gosh! I can hardly see what the difference that makes. Be it 10 or 20, if you're happy with her and her with you then leave it at that!
At the end of the day, she eventually found you!
The route to happyness is a hard and difficult one, and love don't come easy babe, so cherish what you have and be a grown up about it!
2007-11-24 07:11:11 · answer #4 · answered by Kc 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If asked I will tell the truth,but I've found most men can't handle the truth. I simply say don't ask if you don't want to know.
2007-11-24 07:10:16 · answer #5 · answered by Kathy R 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
men make a big a deal about women lying but thing is that men would lie to.
2007-11-24 07:22:56 · answer #6 · answered by Sundi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if a wife loves her husband she will be honest with him and tell him.
2007-11-24 07:10:02 · answer #7 · answered by Bryan M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, they dont tell them the truth, and honestly, husbands dont need to know.
2007-11-24 07:14:35 · answer #8 · answered by Elyse B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes they certainly should be honest and it shouldnt even bother you on no matter what that number is either as it is the past not present ........ as long as there are no std's involved ......
2007-11-24 07:11:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋