My fiance has been worried that she is pregnant. She is on BC for 2 months( and has taken all of them, just may not have been at the same time everyday.When we had sex, I wore a condom some of the times. She got her period on time, but she is still worried she may be pregnant. I keep telling her she needs to settle her nerves. She says that her stomach feels weird and its almost like nerves, it doesnt hurt, but she says it "feels weird" She also said that she has lost 3-4 pounds in the past week, and she is worried that means she is pregnant? Does it sound like she is pregnant? or is it just her worrying and her nerves, which is what I think is happening. I told her to wait until the middle of next week to take a test. 1, to make sure we get a valid test. and 2 to prove to her everything is okay and that she can finally settle her nerves. What do you think I should do to calm her down because I do not think she is pregnant?
2007-11-24 05:52:33 · 16 answers · asked by jasonej101 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Doesn't sound like shes pregnant. Just have her take a test to calm her down. And be reassuring to her that if she is you'll still be there for her. Good Luck
2007-11-24 05:59:05 · answer #1 · answered by mrsmommashipp 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you need to buy her a test today, if she is pregnant she doesnt need to be that stressed out. its not good for the baby. PLEASE just spend 8 bucks and buy a 2 pack of tests. she can take one today and one next week. that is the ONLY thing that will completely settle her nerves. there isnt any way to say if shes pregnant or not through the computer. im sorry. i wish that i could help more =] btw being pregnant isnt a bad thing, its a HUGE blessing. but if you arent ready to be parents(like if you are still in high school or something) then you should wear a comdom everytime you have sex if you dont want a baby. Good luck and god bless!
2007-11-24 06:01:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Her stomach feels weird because she is stressing out so bad. They have tests at the dollar tree that actually work for a buck. I just confirmed my pregnancy with two of them! She had a period, so she's not pregnant. Go spend a buck to calm her down, or you will both be batty soon!!! lol!! Good luck!!!
2007-11-24 06:10:28 · answer #3 · answered by ~Kim~ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesnt sound like she is pregnant but the only way to calm here down is to do a test and when she sees a negative she will feel better, she should be able to do the test now. Just keep reassuring her and letting her know your their for her. good luck.
2007-11-24 06:25:56 · answer #4 · answered by .............x.................. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She could do a test now... it may not be accurate being so soon, but there a special tests you can do almost immediately after conception that test for very small levels of horomone increases. Even if it's not 100% accurate, it might help calm her down. Then she could re-do it next week.
The strange stomach feeling and weight loss is probably just stress.
2007-11-24 05:57:06 · answer #5 · answered by Taryn 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Many women experience weight lose when they first become pregnant. If she is that worried she needs to go get a blood pregnancy test done because those are the most accurate.
2007-11-24 06:00:35 · answer #6 · answered by Nicole 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
look tell her what shes suspose to be like when shes pregnant
if shes pregnant she will gain pounds not go down
she might just have a stomach flue
due pregnancy test
then go to doctor
get her a book on pregnancy
this should calm her down a little
2007-11-24 06:05:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get used to this. Women always think theyre pregnant if they had sex, and their bodies always act like they are.
2 months really isnt long enough on the pill to avoid pregnancy without a condom- not very well anyway.
But, its pretty unlikely she's pregnant since she had her period not too long ago.
She wont chill out until she gets another period or takes a test.
2007-11-24 05:57:56 · answer #8 · answered by amosunknown 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Take a pregnancy test.
2007-11-24 06:11:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
have her take a test but when you first start taking BC you do feel weird. her hormones are changing so she isn't gonna feel normal for a little while.
2007-11-24 06:32:23 · answer #10 · answered by happybee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋