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You will know when someone plan to have a future with you when that person think of you first. He doesn't put himself before you. He will do all he can to accommodate you. Talk is cheap. Any one that just talk and don't deliver or promise and do something else. You will know when he also share all his deepest secret with you.

2007-11-26 10:43:07 · answer #1 · answered by PD 2 · 0 0

When or if he asks you if you want to have children. Yes, even though we are in a society that avoids children to the max, specially when people want to finish school and their careers, there is still that accomplishment that nobody wants to die without achieving, and that is having children.

Whether you have a child in 10 years or in 2, you both have to speak about the possibilities if you ever have children in the future how will it be, what will you teach them. It might bring you closer, or it might awaken many things for you. But honest, unless a man talks about kids, I don't think he is ready to commit himself to a woman for a lifetime, and he certainly would not support you if it happens by "accident".

So my best advice to you, keep those birth control nearby but do make sure you talk about the possibilities for the future. You definitely don't want a sexual relationship with someone who WILL NOT support you in case of an accident. Someone like that is definitely not good for a lifetime.

2007-11-25 21:02:51 · answer #2 · answered by molokaicreeper 3 · 0 0

There is no real way to know if or when. The only thing I can think of is when he gives you that ring and proposes to you. then you know he wants to be with you and only you.The thing about relationships and even life is that you THINK you know someone very well, but you actually dont know them 100%. That is why you always see reports on the TV people saying things like "I would never had thought he/she could do such a thing".I guess the only true way is thru the test of time. If he wants you for just sex then he will not be around for long IF you wait until marriage to have sex with anyone.

2007-11-24 05:07:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

you just have to go by what he says and does, but at the same time you have to ask yourself if you can see a future with him?
These are both questions that can only be figured out by starting off as friends, waiting to see what happens from there, and perhaps a lot of talking to each other as to goals in life and so on.

2007-11-24 05:18:19 · answer #4 · answered by Al B 7 · 0 0

He'll tell you and be showing you. He will do things that lead up to that point. You'll definitely know. Of course I'm talking about mature men.

2007-11-24 05:04:07 · answer #5 · answered by renamed 6 · 1 0

he will show you how he feel about you he will even start treating you as tho you were all ready married grocery shopping telling you all about his day whats going on in his personal life taking you on family gathering make sure you meet the important peoples in his life treating you like his best buddy

2007-11-24 05:10:37 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 0 0

First, he has to have and keep a job, usually calls or sees you once a day, and things he hates to do, he'll do it for you.
Main thing is having a job and how long he's been there.

2007-11-24 05:04:45 · answer #7 · answered by 144289 7 · 0 0

Asking you to marry him,and giving you a ring,and a date to be married.This would be a good start,right?

2007-11-24 05:45:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

if he is saying that he likes sending time with you

2007-11-24 09:56:18 · answer #9 · answered by ケチャッパー 4 · 0 0

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