And if so how can I buy it without my mum finding out?
I'm a guy but I want to be a girl and I told my Mum but she wouldn't accept me as a girl so I'm stuck in this male body and I'm beginning to fell really miserable as a boy and I want to start doing feminine things, I mean I can do them outside at school with my mates because they accept me but I'm to self conscious to wear the clothes and stuff I want, I can act like a girl without being selfconscious but I can't wear girls things without being selfconscious.
2007-11-24 03:38:10 · 9 answers · asked by Lily R 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Go over to your girlfriends houses and let them dress you up and do your makeup for you. You can take it off before you leave. Let your friends help you. I bet they will be a great help to you. Also listen to advice they give you on doing things the way girls do them. That will help you too.
2007-11-24 03:43:59 · answer #1 · answered by jennysmith0214 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Hi sweetie, listen your not stuck in a male body at all, you may be young now and subject to your parents wishes, but you have the rest of your life ahead of you to make any necessary changes needed to make you complete.
If you truly are subject to gender dysphoria then this is your destiny regardless what anyone says, and buying female clothing or wearing discreet makeup will not make you more female..
The big thing is, although you say your mum wont accept you being Transgendered, at least you have had the courage to come out and tell her, and as time progresses, she will realise that this is the true you and it isnt a fad, it isnt something you just thought of doing, but it was how you were born!
You will always have lots of people on here to talk to, who were / are, in similar circumstances.
What i would say though, is dont let some of the less encouraging answers (which are sure to come), annoy you.
2007-11-24 04:47:46 · answer #2 · answered by Leia Nicole Black 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
http://ai.eecs.umich.edu/people/conway/TS/Evelyn/Evelyn.htm
First that is a link that may help your Mum is she will read it.
There are several things you can do. Jewelery; so much of it is gender neutral most people wont give it more then a casual glance. Perhaps a natural shade of eye shadow applied lightly. A natural shade of lip gloss. Maybe a moisturizer for your face will help you feel more feminine.
Clothes can also be gender neutral, there is very little difference in jeans if you do not buy the designer labels. No one will know but you and if that helps you then that is all that matters.
There are a lot of little things you can do. Shave your legs and underarms, may help.
You are the only one that knows how severe your Gender Dysphoria is, if you even have it. You have taken perhaps the hardest step already, you told someone that is important in your life. I assume from the wording of your question you live in G.B. Perhaps there is a gender therapist you can talk to under the Health Care System there. Best of luck, its not easy but the rewards can be wonderful.
2007-11-24 04:18:27 · answer #3 · answered by Paula Jenel 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Lot's of good advice already here, read and take notice.
As for "let your girlfriends dress you up"... you probably dont need me to tell you.... It aint gonna happen.
Undies are good, makeup, yes but be carefull, I wear clear nail gloss to work regularly (in a manly bloke job) and no one notices, or cares. Jewelry... a pendant on a long chain will hang below your collar, just make sure it's inside !
If I could go back in a time machine to when I was at school, and give myself one piece of advice on girly issues it would be this. "Take care of your health". I have a visible scar on my neck that's 8 inches long, I am over weight, and I have a broken nose and crooked teeth.... If I was 16 again... I'd be seriously thinking about those long term issues, not the short term.
Get in touch with one of the many excellent groups, beaumont society, Northern Concord, tri-ess.... and you will discover plenty of helpfull friends out here. log in to crossdressers.com, crossdresserclub.com or this one... which I like. http://rosesforum.tv/index.php and above all, have good safe time.
2007-11-25 02:50:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
At 15 you can leave home at 16 and start taking female hormones.
Do that instead of trying to fight with an intolerant regime now
In the meantime spend time with as many of your female friends as possible.
Spend as much time as possible away from home and sleepover at your friends' houses.
2007-11-24 11:08:46 · answer #5 · answered by StretfordEnder 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't get it. I thought the whole point of clothing (other than covering particular body parts and keeping warm) was to be noticed. So why wear something if no one notices? Wouldn't that defeat the purpose?
2007-11-24 07:13:48 · answer #6 · answered by GirlInside 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
You can wear girl's underwear. No one will see it through your clothes.
2007-11-24 04:02:00 · answer #7 · answered by cyanne2ak 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
wear girls underwear, then u will feel femiene and your mum will never know, just wash them yourself, :)
2007-11-24 03:53:07 · answer #8 · answered by EMILY S 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
did you asked this question before?I already answered
2007-11-24 03:45:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋