that now i refuse to state my sexuality and it is OBVIOUS that i am bisexual, because i say if i fancy a guy or a girl, for some reason it is attracting more admirers?
it's like people find it sexy, i'm not joking btw this is the honest truth.
2007-11-24 01:16:21 · 12 answers · asked by ♥SPARKLES♥™ 5 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
rush112: good luck to the ones who shout their sexuality out but as for me i don't feel like it's nobodies business
2007-11-24 01:23:41 · update #1
gypsy: i am talking about 'real life' 'off yahoo answers'....there was no need for that bitchy sarcasm and nit picking. you have looked way TOO into the question, many people have given some really good answers to open my mind but that was just plain rude what you just said.
2007-11-25 04:35:44 · update #2
its up 2 the individual sparkie innit
2007-11-24 01:58:38 · answer #1 · answered by tasty 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I agree with what's already been said here - sure, it might be attracting MORE admirers, but what's more important, the quantity or the QUALITY? Look, the only people who REALLY should know about your sexuality are anyone you're involved with and any close friends or family members whom you are comfortable having as confidantes. That's the complete list. Anyone else? It's none of their damned business, really, and you have the right to tell them so.
It's nice that people find it sexy, but are your relationships and friendships based only on the kind of people you want to shag, or the kind whom you'd like to get to know better before (and IF) the clothes come off?
2007-11-24 12:39:19 · answer #2 · answered by dreamchaser8860 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are absolutely right - it is nobody else's business who you are attracted to. It is true that some people find the thought of being with a bisexual to be appealing. Maybe they think you have a more well-rounded sexual experience.
2007-11-24 09:55:42 · answer #3 · answered by Rojo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well well my dear I think it has something to do with forbidden fruits.
What some people may think is out of reach (for whatever reason) then they suddenly find out, that it is within reach.
It can create a certain level of excitement.
Thus creating more admirers as you are now available to alot more people.
2007-11-26 09:26:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
your sexuality is yours! it only matters if you and others have the same interest and want to share things. some just want to know what your favorite is or which one is better man or woman...... lots of guys find it sexy when a woman likes women so they can figure oit to get in the middle of all the action.
2007-11-24 10:23:47 · answer #5 · answered by MS TANYA 313 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I bet most of these admirers are guys. And you are right, it isn't really anyones business. You probably only need to tell a girl that you are interested in dating.
2007-11-24 11:47:39 · answer #6 · answered by jennysmith0214 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1) In the exact same statement, you claim "I refuse to state my sexuality", then you turn around and say "it is obvious that I am bisexual".
Make up your mind, Sparkles.
2) "...for some reason it is attracting more admirers". And you're loving every minute of it, and you know it.
"good luck to the ones who shout their sexuality out but as for me i don't feel like it's nobodies business"
For starters, that would be "I feel like it's nobody's business" or "I don't feel like it's anybody's business" - "I DON'T feel like it's NOBODIES" is a double-negative, which is bad grammar. And it's "nobody's", not "nobodies", which is bad spelling. (There IS a spell-check on here.)
For another thing, obviously you DO feel as if your bisexuality is EVERYBODY'S business, otherwise you wouldn't be mentioning it over and over and over and over and over again on here like you do. Basically, you DO "shout out" your sexuality. You contradict yourself on here quite often, Sparkles; I've watched you do it repeatedly.
2007-11-24 19:40:46 · answer #7 · answered by Gypsy 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋
If you konw your bi thats all that matter isn't it? Go with what you want and don't let it matter to anyone else. As long as your happy and living your life the waay you want thats what matters!!
2007-11-24 09:36:14 · answer #8 · answered by life as we know it 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Lots of women claim to be bi or gay in order to get men. However, later they wonder why they attract such low quality men.
Men do that as well..they claim they are gay, when they are not..and just watch the women come around trying to convert them!
2007-11-24 10:34:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
You just have to be who you are
Who cares what the others think or how they find it?
2007-11-24 09:33:36 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋