Am i gay?I?

Question

i am in seventh grade and i play basketball baseball and football. But a few weeks ago i was looking at porn and i a video of two guys doing stuff. Instead of just leaving i played the movie and i immediatly got a huge bonner. Since then this has happened many more times

Answer 1

You could talk to your school guidance counselor. I wouldn't jump to conclusions because your are so young and watched something that sends signals to your sexual organ. Please don't watch that stuff again. You are to young. Concentrate on your school work.

Answer 2

Im in eighth grade and i know guys in 7th grde that do those things. Ur going through puberty and guys (my guy friends included) do those kinda things and get sick and perverted sometimes but they all do the things a striaght guy does. Its most likely becuase ur going through a change, it doesnt mean ur gay. If u still hav an attraction to girls but not guys then ur still straight, if u hav an attraction to both sexes then u mite be bi, if its jus to the male sex then theres a possibility of becoming gay. Dont fret that much...i had a friend that gots a bonner at almost anything, even his cat but that was last year that doesnt happen anymore cuz he changed alot pyhsically. This might not be the same thing to u but theres a possibility. Dun worry seriously, if u do become gay, there nothing wrong wit that...personally i like gay people as much as bi and striahgt ppl, we're all ppl. Gud lux dude.-Xavia

Answer 3

You should really be careful with porn, but your really young and lots of things are going on with your body right now it may be to early to tell that do you get stronger feelings about a good looking guy or girl? People don't come out wiht gay stamped on their head i think it's just something that as time goes on you can tell and only you can. Not that you need to look at porn any more but maybe try looking at a playboy mag and see if it turns you on. Plus at that age things like that are normal with anything concerning sex. Good Luck to ya

Answer 4

first of all, why are you looking at porn if you're only in the 7th grade?? Porn is dangerous and its addictive and it gives you the wrong idea of how love and sex is supposed to be between two consenting, loving and caring adults. The reason you got aroused isn't because the two people having sex were male, its because you were witnessing sex, period. You would have been aroused no matter what sex was being presented in the movie.
Curiosity is a very big part of sexuality, don't assume you're gay because of how you reacted to a porno, ok? Sex is extremely special between two people who love each other, or at least thats the way it should be...it gets cheapened and degraded by porn. Do you have an adult you can talk to and discuss these feelings? You're probably not going to get very many good responses in here, I'd go to someone I could trust. Stay away from Porn and do something constructive with your time and energy, you've got plenty of time later in life to experiment with who you are.

Answer 5

Being gay has more to do with what's going on in your head than what's going on in your pants. It has nothing to do with what sports you play and what movies you see. Sexual arousal is a complex thing and could happen for a number of reasons - or for no reason at all! You need to set aside your reaction to this movie and ask yourself - in your mind and in your heart - what your orientation is. This is something that only you can answer.

Answer 6

You could be gay. You could also be bisexual. Either way, you're young enough where you don't really need to put a label on it. For most people, sexuality isn't solidified until they're in their late teens. Of course, you're pretty certain before that age which direction you're headed, but if there's no pressure to put a label on yourself, why do it?

In regard to your first comment, being an athlete doesn't mean you can't have an attraction to guys - one really has nothing to do with the other. In fact, you'll probably find that a number of your peers are just as curious as you are.

The one thing I would say, regardless of your sexuality, is that you should just be careful. If you're going to experiment, always protect yourself. Good luck!

Answer 7

When you are young your penis seems to have a brain of it's own. You are flooded with hormones, and can get excited vary easily. I wouldn't act on thouse feelings until you are much older. You might do something you don't want to live with for the rest of your life. It could be you are just Horney.

Answer 8

You are sexually turned on by men. So what, you are young enjoy your youth.
Sexual preference does not mean you are gay. Being gay is a lifestyle.- Sexual preference is part of that lifestyle but not the whole thing.

Answer 9

If you got the ***** while looking at a guy then yes you are gay. If you got the ***** while looking at a boy and a girl you're bisexual. But remember, your hormones are going crazy right now.

Answer 10

most proably not ,just your hormones raging!of course there is nothing wrong with you if you are homosexual,it would be better to know now than to live a lie.