Girls Only Please, Masturbating Question?

Question

How do you masturbate, because I don't know how and I want to start. Please don't report this question because I'm very confused about what other people do. So can you please tell me what you do, because I'm VERY confused about this whole masturbation stuff . I'm a girl so can girls only answer. Thank You x

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Answer 1

Well, I started to masturbate when I was 11 Im 16 now, and i think its perfectly normal...I started to masturbate with the flow of the shower, you can also masturbate with your fingers massaging you clitoris, or inserting your fingers inside you V, or you can use a vibrator, I bought a vibrator that its from Durex its nice...when i was younger i used to use a vibrating tooth brush..lol..off course i never used that brush to brush my teeth, but u can use your imagination and good luck...

Answer 2

I'm afraid to answer this but I will...delicately. I don't know how old you are, but basically if you're thinking of a guy that's hot, and you wish you could do him, you would imagine the fantasy and you'd get hornier and well, use the five finger method. Everyone does it different. Some use toys. Some like fetishes (like they like to be in S&M) It's like the song from the Divynals called, "Touch myself" or Cindi Lauper has a song about masturbation called, "She Bop" - don't worry, it will all happen naturally and you will know exactly what you're going to want to ..........because you will be...hmm, putting your hand on your private part and rub it, stroke it, etc. THEN you will know what it's like. Heaven!

Answer 3

If you're getting pleasure and you're not injuring yourself, why does it matter that you don't masturbate like other girls? Seriously, unless you plan on having a party for it, no one will ever know except for people you tell.

Answer 4

it's something you have to learn yourself. i suggest you look up female anatomy and once you are familiar with the parts like the clitoris and G-spot, whihc is where you get more pleasure.

lube up your hands and have a feel around. don't worry about orgasming yet. just feel around and if something feels nice keep doing it. really concentrate on your senses and when you find a few thing's you like keep swapping from one to another.

if you feel you'rself getting frustraited because you want an orgasm but you can't get one just have a break and go back because if you worry bout it it won't happen.

good luck.

Answer 5

There are many answers already providing how people do it. It is normal to want to experiment with your body in this way, so do enjoy it hun.

The link below has a lot of information on this topic that you may like to read at your leisure. It does talk about the subject in depth, so please do not read if you are too young.

Have fun.

Answer 6

you learn what you like get some baby oil have you got a vibrator go down there with your hand and toy and play around i cant teach you over the net these things you learn your self but like i said explore with your hands toys,and even buy a few guy mag's and you will see in detail what to do to turne yourself on heres to happy masturbating

Answer 7

Everyone's different. Only you know what feels good to you. Experiment by lubricating your fingers and probing around for your sensitive areas. Be careful not to injure yourself with long fingernails or by being rough. Gently rub your clitoris and insert one finger into your vagina. It helps to think about a gorgeous man while you do this.

Answer 8

its just using your fingers to pleasure yourself down stairs its nothing to be ashamed of its normal dont care what any1 says only you know what you will like and its good for when you are old enough for sex you can then tell the man what you like good luck

Answer 9

Masturbation gives women the opportunity to explore their body while at the same time giving them a high degree of sexual freedom. It allows women the opportunity to experience sexual pleasure without relying on a partner and to release sexual tension when "they" choose to. Masturbation can be very empowering for women, as it gives them increased control over their body and sexuality. Masturbation is a great teaching tool, it teaches women about their body, how it responds to sexual stimulation. For many normal and healthy women masturbation is their primary or only means of experiencing orgasm. Many women experience their most intense orgasms while masturbating, because they can provide the ideal mental and physical stimulation they require without worrying about the wants of their partner. Masturbation is extremely beneficial to women throughout their life, from infancy to maturity. While a woman will not always have a sexual partner she will always have herself.

Why Learning Early in Life is Important

Masturbation is the first and most import sexual skill a girl or woman should learn as it frequently holds the key to enjoying other forms of sexual activity. Ideally, this skill is learned prior to puberty but far too often it is not learned until a women is in her late teens, early twenties, or later. The reason it should be learned, or at least known about, prior to puberty is so teens have a constructive means of addressing their developing sex drive. It also increases their awareness of their ever-changing body, and provides some sense of control over it. If a teen knows how to masturbate she is less likely to be compelled to seek out a sexual partner before she is emotionally and physically ready; while girls start menstruating between the ages of ten and fourteen their body is not truly prepared for pregnancy, childbirth, and nursing until late in their teens. Masturbation provides young women with an option other than sexual frustration or sex with a partner.

Learning to masturbate to orgasm at an early age is often easier than later in life when we have learned social mores and expectations that frequently create barriers to sexual pleasure and orgasm. As we get older and become educated we tend to think about things too much. It is often better to learn to masturbate and potentially experience orgasm prior to knowing what you are doing and how others view those activities. Things teens and women have learned and experienced may cause orgasmic impairment. When masturbation is learned early in life girls often continue to even if they feel guilty or fear being punished, because of the pleasure and relaxation it brings them. Innocence and naivety does have its benefits.

How Do Women and Girls Masturbate?

Women and girls masturbate in an endless list of ways. They may massage their clitoris with hands and fingers or rub their vulva up against pillows, bed cloths, stuffed animals, and furniture. Some use water spray, vibrators, and dildos to stimulate their vulva or vagina. The vagina appears to play a limited role in the masturbation practices of women, but vaginal insertion is by no means rare or unusual. When vaginal stimulation is used it is often used in conjunction with clitoral stimulation. Some women employ nipple and/or anal stimulation in addition to clitoral and vaginal stimulation. Fantasy often plays a major role in a woman's masturbation activities. The brain is the largest and most important sexual organ and as a result physical stimulation alone is frequently not sufficient to trigger orgasm.

The Right Way?

It is important to understand there is no "correct" or "right" way to masturbate. Some women feel they should be able to masturbate to orgasm using a different or more correct method because they hear other women do it that way. It is important to keep in mind that each woman's anatomy is a little different and her psychological makeup is a lot different. This results in every woman masturbating differently, even if they use the same basic technique.

While many women can masturbate to orgasm employing several different techniques others find they can reach orgasm only when they use the same method each time. There is nothing wrong with this. Partly because of conditioning and partly because of differences in woman's bodies learning new techniques can be difficult or even impossible. If you are orgasmic with your current masturbation technique feel free to experiment but do not feel you have to reach orgasm in other ways too. Remember, masturbation should be fun and enjoyable no matter how you do it.

Answer 10

Read other girls experiences at TheClitoris.com

(Sorry I am a guy but this site has helped many girls)