2007-11-23 19:51:34 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
guys...i'm only referring to Romantic kind of love...not platonic or unconditional kind of thing..
can you? is it possible? to fall inlove romantically/ or teach your heart to fall romantically inlove with someone you're no even slightly attracted to? i mean...take for example "Beauty and the Beast"?? huh? what do you think? O.o
2007-11-23 20:01:53 · update #1
Lolz @ Noah (Shhhhh...) =P
2007-11-24 11:36:49 · update #2
f you look at their personality and who they are, their knowledge, and if they make you smile and laugh yes it is possible.
2007-11-24 07:38:58 · answer #1 · answered by sweetnspicy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends. if there's something about the person that you like so much it makes physical attractiveness irrelevant then yes. This is why extremely attractive women often fall for men of great intellect or wit but who are perhaps not traditionally "attractive". Take Marilyn Monroe and Arthur Miller. Miller is by no means physically unattractive but he's no Tom Cruise.
I can't think of any examples the other way round (Man falling for unattractive woman due to her intellect etc.) but they probably exist.
I certainly can't see how you could fall in love with someone who isn't attractive on any level though, physically or intellectually. There'd be no point to it unless it was done out of guilt or desperation. I'd rather be alone than with someone who didn't find me remotely attractive on any level. That would be so lonely and tragic it would be worse than being alone.
2007-11-23 23:49:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I'm so sorry to say, no, it's best not to. My first husband was that guy for me. I married him because he was brilliant, and I had so much respect for him. After a couple of years, though, I realized how much more I needed. This was very a unfair thing for him--I wasted almost three years of his life. He should have been free to find someone to love him in all ways. I will always feel guilt for that.
2007-11-24 07:15:06 · answer #3 · answered by Mandy--relatively harmless 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
In my opinion NO......but everyone is different. I just feel that if there is no attraction then how would you relate to the person.....I mean most of the time that's what starts the talking is you have a little attraction to that person then it seems to move on to something different.
2007-11-23 20:04:25 · answer #4 · answered by ♥ £ðx¥ Ðå痢 ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I work with a girl who married a guy that she says she has no physical attraction to but they are compatible in every other way. He is very kind and attentive to her and I think that she is happy but to each his (or her) own
2007-11-23 19:54:52 · answer #5 · answered by Laura4681 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's highly unlikely that I can and yet there are no hard and fast rules, for the heart is...well, volatile. Circumstances alter cases and I may end up eating my words.
2007-11-23 22:36:37 · answer #6 · answered by Lance 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes, because love and attraction (lust) are two totally different things. You can surely learn to love someone that you're not attracted to...but it won't be as easy to have sex with them.
2007-11-23 19:54:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
oh you bet! arranged marriages were the norm until the 1900 a,d, and are still sometimes. depending on the culture that your from. some even lasted till death did they part! what an idea -huh?
2007-11-23 19:55:52 · answer #8 · answered by speck323 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
no you cant .you will be hurting urself in the long run .. never pretend to love or to have attraction for someone if u truly dont . it will hurt the other person as well ..
2007-11-23 23:26:31 · answer #9 · answered by Snuggles 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, not in a romantic sense.
2007-11-23 19:54:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋