My boyfriend told me if he pulled out, that i had a smaller chance of get pregnant,is that TRUE????

Question

He didnt have a condom??

Answer 1

Your boyfriend is a collosal jerk and he is quite wrong about "pulling out" being safe. There are sperm in the pre-ejaculate so withdrawing later may already be too late. Sperm deposited just outside also sometimes find their way inside and even virgins have gotten pregnant that way.

But pregnancy risks aside, why on earth would you sleep with someone who doesn't care enough to protect you both with a condom? Pregnancy is not the only risk and if he will go "bareback" with one girl, he'll do it with others.

If you insist on sleeping with this worthless jerk, start bringing your own condoms or learn to say "no way" if neither of you have one. You can masturbate each other or do other things instead of intercourse if you just have to have sex.

You also need to get the "morning after" pill and have it on hand if you ever have a condom accident or lose your mind and have unprotected sex again. And please find a boyfriend that care more about you than his orgasms!
Right now, you DO have to worry about pregnancy and getting an STD. If you haven't been seeing a gynecologist you need to and you need to be tested for gonorrhea, chlamydia, syphilis and HIV now and you need a pregnancy test. Seriously. You have been exposed to the possibilty of all of those by your selfish boyfriend.

As for the "less risk" let's put it this way: if someone handed you a box and said that it might have less risk of exploding than another box but that one in every ten boxes would surely explode, would you consider holding that box "safe"? Pulling out or withdrawal is virtually useless for birth control and zero protection against diseases.

You are worth a lot more than some clod who won't protect you. Please learn to stick up for yourself. You might also want to read a copy of "Our Bodies, Ourselves" to educate yourself.

Edit: I saw how recently you posted. You need to talk to Planned Parenthood or your doctor immediately about getting Plan B or some other emergency contraceptive to protect yourself from letting a pregnancy occur. This guy is NOT "daddy" material.

Answer 2

If you use a condom the correct way the effectiveness is 97%. And 1 in 100 couples will get pregnant in a year (if it's used correctly). With the pull out method the effectiveness is between 70 and 75% effective. And 1 in 24 couples will get pregnant. Birth Control like the pill, patch, or shot is about 98% effective when used correctly.

Yea if he pulls out it slightly lowers the chance but you are still playing a VERY risky game. One drop of Precum has about 100,000 sperm. You can still get pregnant off of precum. The pull out method is very very very ineffective. Not only can you get pregnant you could get an STD. Now do you want to have to tell future partners that you got an STD and could pass it along to them because this guy didn't have a condom. Always ALWAYS use protection and get on birth control. Condoms are free at most health departments and Planned Parenthood centers.

Good Luck and start being safe.

Answer 3

Well, he won't be depositing as much sperm in you, so yes, there's a smaller chance, BUT men do ejaculate a small amount before they 'come' and there are millions of babies out there to prove that the 'pulling out' method is not a reliable method of birth control. Men have been using this line on women for ages to get out of having to wear a condom. Don't buy it. It's your body he's messing with. So yes, a smaller chance but still a chance. I, personally, would not want to play those odds. Do you?

Answer 4

It is true that your chances of pregnancy are smaller.

Microsopically smaller. Bwahaha...

Don't listen to your boyfriend, he's trying to get out of wearing a condom, and he doesn't care if you end up pregnant.

Answer 5

You might have a smaller chance, but there's still a chance. If you aren't going to use condoms, you need to be on birth control.

Answer 6

Hi,
if you dont want a baby dont risk it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I couldnt use condoms and allergic and wasnt able to go on pill so me and my partner used the withdrawal method for nearly 12 months but he was sooo careful and alot of people get pregnant because their partner cant help but release some semen!
We on the other hand were prepared if i did fall pregnant and actually in the end stopped using withdrawal method and i managed to get pregnant 1st time!!!!

I would use a condom if your not wanting to support a family!

Answer 7

well technically there is a smaller chance but you still have a good chance of getting pregnant. dont use withdrawal as a birth control method. many women get pregnant that way.

Answer 8

hahahahahaha...he wanted to have sex and he was too stupid to bring a condom. He's not looking out for your best interest. Not only can you get pregnant you can also get whatever nasty disease he's picked up from the other girls he's convinced that he'll just "pull out". Watch out for yourself and always use a condom. If he doesn't care enough about you (or himself) to wear one do you really want to be with him?

Answer 9

NO!! he is just lying to get what he wants honey you can get pregnant from the fluid that is produced during erection the pull out method does not always work!!

Answer 10

Absolutely and totally false!!!! There are live sperm cells in the fluid that comes out of the penis before the man ejaculates. If he's going to put it inside you he must use a condom. Don't let him try to talk you out of it.