My husband and I have a almost 2 year old daughter and I have Lupus and since that makes it REALLY harder to have a baby and take longer because of possible miscarraiges how much longer should we wait before trying again?
2007-11-23 18:18:56 · 8 answers · asked by JoJo 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I have Lupus.. my first pregnancy was a misscarriage and this one i have luckily made it to 38 wks with a little girl. After she is born i plan on having an iud put in (maybe! im a little skeptical..) Because this pregnancy was SO hard on my body, i definetly do NOT want to get pregnant right away! (which im sure you remember how hard it was!) But me and my husband were thinking if we want another baby when our daughter turns 3 then we should start trying when she is 2. Just to give us some time and not stress over it too much..I say if you are wanting to be pregnant soon (like within 6 months) why not start trying now? I mean if you get pregnant next month its not like you wont be happy about it right? Hope i helped somewhat.. and good luck!
2007-11-23 18:36:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd be trying now if that were me. If you fell pregnant straight away for some reason you will still have a good gap between kids, if it takes longer to fall then the wider the gap and the harder it is.
I'd be going for it now if you can.
Best of luck
2007-11-24 02:26:02 · answer #2 · answered by Cindy; mum to 3 monkeys! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 years apart is perfect. mine are 2 1/2 years apart and they have a playmate constantly, which of course helps me out also since i dont have to constantly entertain and can get things done that i need to do. Not as much sibling jeolousy either as there is with a older child. (not saying there wont be but its harder the longer the child is mommys baby)
good luck
2007-11-24 02:35:54 · answer #3 · answered by nscarfan24n48 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try now i have a 17 month old and I'm 8 1/2 months pregnant with boy number two
2007-11-24 02:34:51 · answer #4 · answered by single mother 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, Only you can answer that question! If YOU feel ready and your partner too then whats stopping you!!!!I have an article here that explains pregnancy and Lupus.
Good Luck with everything, im sure you will be fine. : - )
2007-11-24 03:06:05 · answer #5 · answered by Prettyinpink 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because of your medical condition the person to ask if your doctor...not this board.
2007-11-24 02:37:43 · answer #6 · answered by PK211 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to have a kid not, go for it now. If not, wait.
Why the worry?
2007-11-24 02:24:32 · answer #7 · answered by David 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whenever it feels right for you both. good luck
2007-11-24 02:28:41 · answer #8 · answered by chickybabe1371 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋