I just found out from my friend that my ex boyfriend (we broke up 2 years ago) told all his friends that i had stretch marks.Is it that significant that he had to mention that?Do they look that ugly on a woman`s body? Am I the only one who has them ???Why to tell evrybody ????I`m so upset.
2007-11-23 15:54:32 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
Some guys are idiots. Pretty much all women have stretch marks somewhere (at least they do if they have boobs), but some have it worse than others. Some guys are super shallow others understand that it's really no big deal--like having freckles. Just ignore the idiot and his friends and date someone more mature.
2007-11-23 15:58:24 · answer #1 · answered by Conniebug 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of Stretch Marks?
2016-05-20 09:09:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a guy. Just looked so I am pretty sure about it. I would not care. My wife has them. When we met I was a bodybuilder and I had them. Much more important is compatability. If stretch marks made a difference for him that is his problem. He is a loser, a real man would not care. Real women are much better than the fake kind. That means stretch marks, grey hair wrinkles and even hair on the legs. And a real man would not be telling anybody about something so superficial.
2007-11-23 16:08:28 · answer #3 · answered by Charles C 7 · 8⤊ 0⤋
You know I would be upset to. He should keep that between you two only that was very mean. He problay regrets it now that was cruel. I think stretch marks matter allot to guys. They look at you different to. It also depends on the guy. Theirs mature and theirs dumb *****. My husband really doesn't care. He thinks I still have a great body. He wasn't right for you maybe that's why you broke up. Don't worry about what people say or think. Their problay jealous. Think about that. Its whats inside that matters. You can't judge a book by its cover. Don't stress about it just think of what he lost. I hope I made you feel better :)
2007-11-23 16:08:12 · answer #4 · answered by Happy, :) & Sad :( 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
In your case, I don't think it's so much the stretch marks as it is the fact that your ex-boyfriend is probably upset that you guys broke up.
As for stretch marks, so many women have them. It's really not a big deal.
2007-11-23 15:59:21 · answer #5 · answered by En79 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Your ex-boyfriend is a jerk for saying ANYTHING about you. Every woman who has kids or weighs a bit too much has stretch marks. It just varies as to how visible they are.
Try not to be upset and just feel lucky that you are no longer with this immature boy.
Don't let anyone make you feel badly about yourself.
2007-11-23 15:59:07 · answer #6 · answered by FishStory 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing unusual about having stretch marks. In fact, they're quite common.
Here's some information that you might find helpful:
http://www.nhsdirect.nhs.uk/articles/article.aspx?articleId=633§ionId=5
"Adolescent growth spurt: Boys and girls tend to grow very quickly during puberty. Boys often get stretch marks on the shoulders, and girls get them on the hips, thighs, and breasts."
http://www.prweb.com/releases/2003/12/prweb94287.htm
"Did you know that 90% of pregnant women, 70% of adolescent females and 40 % of adolescent males have stretch marks."
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2007-11-23 16:18:35 · answer #7 · answered by YY4Me 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Well after two children I am can tell you this, stretch marks suck, but if your man is not shallow then he will not even notice them. News flash guys get them to, it is from growing. They fade in time, and it sounds like he is still trying to hurt you through gossip. Ignore them, it is not worth your time. Everyone has at least one, it is part of life.
2007-11-23 16:01:38 · answer #8 · answered by business_chick_1983 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
The right guy wouldn't care. You're better off without him if he's so immature that he told his friends something intended to make you look bad. Even if I dated a woman who turned out to be a total b!@#h, I wouldn't try to belittle her by discussing flaws with my buds- it only makes me the shallow one. So, in short, a gentleman wouldn't care about a few stretch marks.
2007-11-23 16:01:31 · answer #9 · answered by tj42299 1 · 8⤊ 0⤋
Good riddance to him . no! stretch marks are not an issue. not if he cares about you. you could tell your friends he had a pot belly and a little willy. if that makes you feel better. why keep the whole pig for his little sausage
2007-11-23 16:00:02 · answer #10 · answered by mitchey 2 · 9⤊ 0⤋