Sometimes Im not sure whether Im straight or bi or gay. I love women and love being with them, but sometimes I fantasize about being with another man. Is this normal?
2007-11-23 14:06:42 · 28 answers · asked by mdub 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Yes we do, but you'll hardly hear anyone admitting it.
2007-11-23 14:13:54 · answer #1 · answered by sexy one 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes, this is normal. You are simply changing and learning about who you are. I have to say I'm not sure of my sexual orientation either, and haven't been for a while. I would say, not that I have tons expertise on the topic, but, from what I have heard and learned, men definitely struggle with their sexuality at times and its completely normal. I think everyone probably struggles with their sexuality at some point in their lives.
2007-11-24 08:04:28 · answer #2 · answered by 0 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's as common for a man to question their sexuality. I believe it's very common in women.
Men have this homophobic quality about them, that will determine that they are straight... not all of them, but the majority of men know from day one they like women. if you are in doubt you might be bi. Or maybe it's just a fantasy and nothing more. i guess all you could do it try it.
but that fact that you say you love women, i wouldn't think you are gay, unless you are just confused and think you do.
the only way to find out is to try the other side.
don't drive yourself crazy though over it , it's just sexual preference!
2007-11-23 14:11:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think the word is not "struggle" but you just thought of it. And there is not thing wrong just keep it to yourself. But it all goes down to you. If you really are for women or men.
I once thought of it, but i choose to be gay. Im happy and carefree. Whats more important for you is to think what makes you complete?...sleeping/waking up /communicating with a woman or sleeping/waking up/communicating with a man.
Because at the End of the Day, Its you that matters. Its you who will have to live and Its you who needs to Exist.
2007-11-23 14:27:00 · answer #4 · answered by Lucky14 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pleaaaaase, give me a break. I don't give a flying toss of what your sexuality is.
Hell, i don't give a rats *** if you gay or transexual.
I'm gay/transsexual o.k. I love it. And i don't care or give a monkeys of what mona lisa thinks.
Just go out there and do what u have to do.
And i'm really sorry if i'm being this way, i just get jelouse sometimes.
Life sucks and it's not fair.
2007-11-23 15:58:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is normal. Many people struggle with their sexuality from time to time. Sexual orientation is not necessarily a black or white/either or thing. It is no more abnormal than having sex with one woman while you fantasize about another woman.
2007-11-23 14:23:08 · answer #6 · answered by Rojo 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Some people struggle with their sexuality from time to time, but it is my observation that most do not, gay and straight included in the most.
2007-11-23 14:12:03 · answer #7 · answered by Scott K 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not for straight men, but there is nothing wrong with being gay or bi.
2007-11-23 14:09:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
yes it's normal.
the evangelicals will disagree, but noone is 100% gay or straight. even if they never act on it or admit to it, many "straight" guys have felt the same. i think guys have it harder because the idea of 2 girls getting it on is usually more socially acceptable than 2 guys in the minds of many people.
2007-11-23 14:14:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would offer that it is normal to fantasize, but the real question is what you do about it.
If you follow up with men, you're likely queer, unless you cancel out as soon as you are challenged to perform.
Once you have your first woman, you will know more for sure.
2007-11-23 14:12:04 · answer #10 · answered by The Cythian 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's normal.if you are straight in spiritual context it means that you are integrating more with your masculine part.it's natural and normal.you will know you are bi if you sense a strong urge of wanting to be with a man.otherwise you are well straight.
2007-11-23 14:13:16 · answer #11 · answered by shaira1305 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋