i dont want to live anymore.?

Question

i am a genius. im beautiful. im a very socially successful person. I'm very open-minded and philosophical. this may sound egotisical, but it is quite true. However, i never get praise for the things i accomplish. My opinion is never respected; I am always told what I should and should not believe by other people. Opinions shoved down my throat; the culprits of these actions believe they are right and I am wrong. I am consistantly told my dreams and goals are out of reach, and I should strive for something else. Now, do not get me wrong, I am a very high-willed individual and generally optimistic. I do not want to deal with it anymore. .

Answer 1

You need to lighten up and live for YOU. Screw everybody else. They act that way because they are insecure about themselves. You take control of you and live for you and feel happy and secure inside and all those people will not have any power over you whatsoever. When you do this, you'll be able to stand back and see how totally ridiculous they all are as they run all over the place trying to impress people and putting people down because they are intimidated by other people's good ideas. YOU'RE in conrtol of YOU!!! Have a happy life! Love, Tracy :)

Answer 2

I think you need to get some help and it sounds like maybe the problem is you feel superior to others. Maybe you are but that will make you very lonely if you cant see others as being equal to you. If you are truly a genius than your dreams are not out of reach, they will be easy for you. Why listen to other peoples opinions of what you want to do with your life adn think of the guilt of those that would be left behind if you were to do something foolish. Get some help now.

Answer 3

Hi Samantha,

It sounds as if you love life and have good self esteem. But your circumstances seem to bring you down. Believe me, we all have bad times and they sometimes last longer than anyone wants them to.

I think its admirable that you are setting your goals high. Its important to outline the steps involved to attaining those lofty goals. That way, as you cross each step you will experience success in your journey to the goal. If others have reached these goals then you can too. Of course some goals are impossible such as being the first person to walk on the moon. Since it has been done no one else can achieve it. One can justifiably argue that the 7th person to walk on the moon is just as unique as the 1st.

If someone tells you your dreams are out of reach then ask them if they can lift you up so you can reach them. If someone else has succeded in a similar endeavor you can say "if they did it so can I". People respect opinions that exude wisdom. Wisdom is applied knowledge. As you begin offering opinions that demonstrate an application of knowledge people will respect you even if they don't want to. This is one reason wisdom is often associated with age. Because most people gain knowledge over time.

In the end there are only two opinions that really matter - The Creator's and Yours. And His opinion is that you are valuable. One of the most important goals anyone could have is to learn as much as they can about Him and why he made this planet.

In time you can surround yourself with the type of persons who appreciate you and who offer accolades for your successes. Right now it may be difficult but I assure you it is worth it to weather through.

Remember there are those of us who do care.

Answer 4

If you have the qualities for a successful, and happy life in the long-term, I would just stay patient. You shouldn't throw your life away based solely upon the fact that you happen to live around self-important @$$holes. Geography should not dictate whether or not you feel your life is worth living. People are arrogant, terrible beasts, that much is true. But, contrary to what you may be led to believe, there are enough kind and supportive people around to provide you with sympathetic ears in the future. Enough good and concern in this world to make life worth living.

Try to hang in there. If you think that highly of yourself, it would be shame to throw away your life just because other people around you happen to think in the same fashion (regardless of accuracy).

Answer 5

Everybody with 1/2 a brain goes through the same thing. Pearls before swine and like that. The trouble with smart people is they tend to have thoughts. Most people would just rather parrot Bill O'Reilly.

Answer 6

i think people just look at u as being a beautiful ,and socially person , that people don't even look even deeper what can u accomplish in life. i think u should not care what other think of u and what or what u can not do in life. u have to realize this is your life not theirs and build confidence in what ever u chose to accomplish in life. and u don't need to worry about other talking about u. plus life is hard , but once u have that confidence , u won't it be thinking about killing yourself and so on ,instand u will be completing your goal and will find people that will respect u and your option. don't let people put u down.

Answer 7

Please dont say this, Today I was at A wake of A seven year
old and it was so sad and I'am sure she will be so missed.
Tell yourself that today is your first day of living for yourself,
this means that anything you do is just for you,dont worry
what people thank, I know it must feel bad not to get praise
for doing well but sometimes people only care about there
selves, I promise all this will pay off so just hang in there ok.

Answer 8

You are smart enough to know how you feel and know that people are ALWAYS going to have opinions...that's what poeple do best. Sounds like you have a great head on your shoulders...try not allowing others to get inside of it so much. There's a saying..."pick your battles"...cliche, but true. Keep that head up and know that life is gonna toss alot of sh*t at ya...only you have the strength to climb above. And sounds to me like your quite a strong person!

Answer 9

that seems like a silly reason to not want to live
it doesn't strike me as genius
I think you have a lot going for you and you know it, but you have an ego that is easily squashed and is a bit feisty

Try some form of meditation, read "Autobiography of a Yogi" seems the one thing you're missing is true spirituality, a quieting of all these judgements in your head to find the Bliss in the silence and thus find the Divine

It will help you detach and just witness what others say without becoming tainted...remember others often serve as our reflections to mirror things back to us that we can't see without bias...

This will pass dear, passion will come back, get your priorities straight

Answer 10

You seem to have all the answers to the questions I was going to ask you! You should just get some new friends and leave the old ones behind. They seem to be bringing you down, and you do not need that in your life.