welll im uncircumcised?

Question

and when i asked the girl i like, she said that neither the circumsized or uncircumcised is sick, but after i said ohh thank god, because i though most girls thought it was sick, she started to say it was gross and stuff =[

im 15 years old and i am uncircumcised

is that fineee?
i know i shouldnt worry butt, yeaa

Answer 1

The right girl will accept you either way. My husband didn't get circumsised until he was 28, but he did it because he wanted it not for someone else.

Answer 2

Lets be clear - its not gross - it is how every single living man is born - with a naturally intact penis. However I'm guessing that youre in America, which is the last developed country still routinely circumsizing their boys, which is why some girls consider uncircumsized to be alien. Worldwide though, you're in the overwhelming majority with me and 85% of the rest of the men on this planet.
One piece of advice though, keep it clean. Shower every day and pull your foreskin back and wash the entire penis. And a word of warning to any circumsized guys reading this - just because your penis is cut, doesnt mean you are excused from washing it, just like us intact ones.

Answer 3

I basically answered this question in another thread (as did others)

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AogSMQZme4PRuS2Owg9lJdXty6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20071123142317AAKdQNx&show=7#profile-info-IsuUeXPEaa

check it out there.

basically, no it is not bad, you should not feel ashamed. There are many benefits of being uncut as well as being cut, none of which are major. A penis is a penis.

I doubt a 15 yr old girl has had enough experience to have a solid opinion of what's what in this matter, so don;t take it personally.

I'm 19 and in college, and I havn;t come across anyone who even cares. Many of my friends are sexually active, and have nights with men who are cut and uncut, and while some may have a preference to one over the other, it is never a major factor.

Answer 4

Here's the deal. Some girls your age, because they lack experience, feel the way this girl does. But in a couple of years they will learn more and find out that sex is actually MUCH better with a guy who has an intact penis. You only have a few more years in high school, then the rest of your life as an adult, so it would be pretty short-sighted to cut something off that will give you pleasure your entire life to please an immature girl, who, when she is older, will prefer intact guys! Just hang in there -- you are one of the lucky guys your age who escaped being chopped as a baby. You will have pleasure from your foreskin from this time forward.

Oh, and ignore anyone ignorant enough to diss Jorge. Jorge knows more about this subject than any of the rest of the guys here -- that's why he's the Top Answerer in this section.

Answer 5

I think allot of girls, especially around your age, would say a penis is gross whether it was circumcised or not. But I would agree with Medicgirl - the right person for you wouldn't care either way.

Having been circumcised myself just 2 or 3 years ago (I'm 24 now), I would say to you that you should do what you think is best for you (and don't decide until you speak to your doctor - they can advise you the best). In my case it was something I decided would be beneficial due to my particular circumstances, but I'd have preferred it wasn't needed. And I most certainly wouldn't have had it done just to suit someone else.

Answer 6

My advice is to listen to Jorge, he knows more about this subject than anyone else and always backs up what he says.

Most guys in the world are not circumcised and women in other parts of the world think that is normal. Only some American woman think that it would be gross because they don't understand the foreskin or have never experienced it before. The ones that have, usually agree that it's better for sex.

Answer 7

If you keep it clean, it shouldn't be a problem. And cleaning shouldn't be a problem, since it only takes five to ten seconds to pull back and rub... it even feels good. In addition, when erect they both look very alike, many don't know that. Foreskin anatomy:
http://www.cirp.org/pages/anat/
http://net.indra.com/~shredder/intact/anatomy/index.html

Look at it this way. If a girl thinks that being uncircumcised is dirty, you'll prove her wrong once sex comes up, right? So it's only gross if you let it be.

Just relax. In the end it's to your benefit not to be with a shallow girl, anyways. And don't feel like you don't have any benefits, because you have plenty; circumcision has become less common over time:
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20071123142317AAKdQNx&r=w#F8wrC2S1VTfksfjKU7Fw.rbGZcI_8zgOtdkMw4JCGXLhidgYgynx

And if you have a tight foreskin or any other questions, feel free to email me from my profile (I'm 18/pre-med student).

Answer 8

It shouldn't much of a problem, it just means that you will have to do a little more to keep and maintain hygiene, but it's not impossible. I used to be uncircumcised and I choose to get circumcised and it's been more beneficial.

Answer 9

Your penis is fine the way it is. It takes less effort to keep your penis clean than it does to brush and floss your teeth every day. When you're erect, a girl can't tell the difference anyway!

Answer 10

unless you're like gnna have sex with her or something it doesn't really matter
and you shouldn't be bummed about her thinking its gross because if she thinks that she probably wasn't a good choice to like
and its fine that your not crcumsized even though I am circumsicon rate world wide is going down