Im 16, i have been with my boyfriend for 2 years, but we broke up for 6 months last year, he dumped me.
I have loved him solidly for 2 years, i call him my best friend, sometimes i feel hes my only friend....
And then he goes an lets me down...
I dont know whether its becase hes 16, his Xbox 360 and BMXing is sooo important to him, more so than me... I feel often
I am fine witrh him hanging out with them, but now he doesnt text me goodnight or random nice things anymore, and we dont go out anymore. He comes over once a week for an evening and we just get cosy and intimate, thats all we have, when I want to just "hang out" he gets bored, I dont know what to do to keep him entertained anymore.
I am not into BMXing or hangin round the skate park anymore, do you think it means hes drifted away from me?
Am I just holding on to what we used to have so strong?
2007-11-23 09:59:43 · 4 answers · asked by Jade H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You need to face the fact that he is just not that into you anymore. He is telling you in typical teenage boy fashion to move on because that's what he has done.
I know it hurts, I wish I could make it stop, but this is a part of life. In time, he will just be a distant memory. Until then, love life like you have never been hurt.
Good luck. I will pray for you.
2007-11-23 10:04:34 · answer #1 · answered by box of rain 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are growing apart. Stay friends with him, but you should not be intimate with him. He may be using you for sex. You are both very young and need to experience life and enjoy your individual hobbies. Wait a few years, sometimes after a little while you both realize you love each other and want to commit to a relationship.
Good Luck
2007-11-23 18:08:37 · answer #2 · answered by ruth m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my son is 16 and going out with the sweetest girl but the same thing is happening to them. As much as I like her and love him I'm hoping she dumps him so he learns the lesson that relationships are about give and take and not just about what he wants.
2007-11-23 18:06:59 · answer #3 · answered by OzDonna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it kinda looks like ur relationship is going down hil. maybe u should try to talk to him but i would break up. plenty other fish in the sea.
2007-11-23 18:03:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋