But they are no longer the person you miss?
2007-11-23 07:47:11 · 20 answers · asked by queen of snarky-yack again 4 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
(((Moon)) what do you mean?
2007-11-23 07:57:24 · update #1
Kind of.
I used to talk to the best friend I ever had, literally 12 hours out of the day at minimum; usually more. Then something happened that changed us forever, and we're no longer friends. I still stand in the fact that she is one of the best friends I've ever had. I don't regret the things I said, nor does she, but I wish I were still with her.
All I can hope, now, is that she's happy.
But immediately after we stopped talking, I felt empty constantly. I missed her, with all my mind, all my soul, and all my heart. I'll never forgive myself for letting her go.
We talked, once, weeks afterward. She changed. I changed. And we were no longer the people that we had been.
I missed her like hell, even as I read a message she'd just sent me, moments before. And yet, she's not the person I missed.
I was missing the person I wanted her to be; the old her.
But she changed.
I think I'm ready to talk to her now.
2007-11-23 08:11:07 · answer #1 · answered by [[Princess For The Day]] 2 · 4⤊ 2⤋
Well at a hospital, this person was really sick, and traumatized, and I felt so bad for missing them, but they were kinda in a daze. Lucky everything is good now. But I don't take that person forgranted, not one second.
2007-11-23 15:51:02 · answer #2 · answered by your_gurl_leah 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah i miss the person that they used to be
2007-11-23 15:53:47 · answer #3 · answered by Meghana 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes. My husband. We haven't been getting along like normally and I do miss talking to him even though he's right there. He has completely changed for the worse which is unfortunate.
2007-11-23 15:51:11 · answer #4 · answered by Aliyah & Adam's Mom 3 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Or maybe the person you miss is not the idealized version that you thought he/she was and you've seen him the way he/she really is?
"you" here is the general you. Not you, Queen of Yack, you. he he
2007-11-23 16:12:28 · answer #5 · answered by Darth Cheney 7 · 8⤊ 0⤋
YES, oh yes.
I wish my closest friend hadn't changed...
and I wish the person I have feelings for would notice me again.
2007-11-23 17:18:29 · answer #6 · answered by 蝴蝶 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes of course.
2007-11-23 15:50:26 · answer #7 · answered by WooleyBooley again 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes this has happened to me. In some ways it is happening right now. Thank you for putting into words something I have been feeling for some time now...
2007-11-23 16:17:20 · answer #8 · answered by Praire Crone 7 · 6⤊ 1⤋
WOW at your timing!!!!
Edit: It's a situation in my family, very stressing, that I was just dealing with, before I came back online and saw your question.
I've asked a question related to this, months ago, with my old account, but I can't access it anymore. If I can remember anyone who answered that question, I'll try to find it, at their profiles, and put the link here, for you.
Thank you for asking! :)
((((queen of snarky-yack again))))
Edit 2: I can't find the question, sorry! It's about my parents getting old and ill.
2007-11-23 15:53:51 · answer #9 · answered by Moon :) 7 · 5⤊ 2⤋
yes i have.
its like you are right next to them, but it isn't the person you really know.
2007-11-23 15:49:57 · answer #10 · answered by kimba_bia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋