...and i feel a very strong attraction to my best friend, who is straight. he does not know about my unusual orientation, and i afraid to speak up about it. How can i convince him to try something with me?
2007-11-23 07:15:24 · 15 answers · asked by Netorders31 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
"unusual orientation"? Why does this question scream "BS!" to me?
If he's straight, don't get him to try anything with you.
2007-11-23 07:18:57 · answer #1 · answered by Infamous Twit 6 · 5⤊ 1⤋
First of all the fact that you referred to being gay as an unusual orientation is messed up. Furthermore that is personally insulting ....
Second of all - your friend is straight. Get it? What if you were straight and he were gay. Say he also has a crush on you ...... how comfortable would you be if he made a move on you?
If you make a move on him I doubt he will reciprocate .... BUT you may just lose your best friend
2007-11-23 11:23:49 · answer #2 · answered by Rojo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off, there in nothing unusual about it and second, if he's straight, he's straight. Getting him drunk as some people will I'm sure tell you. Won't do anything but make the friendship go down the tubes. If you feel that he might be bi as well, tell him about it or just tell him that you are and see what happens. Most people will not sever a friendship for something like that.
2007-11-23 07:35:29 · answer #3 · answered by Michael K 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
If he is your friend dont come onto him. That is if it means that much to you. Let him know if you are gay but dont force yourself on him. I would not let him know you are attracted to him. You might just feel attraction to him because you know him well and are around him a lot. If so that will pass.
2007-11-23 07:42:23 · answer #4 · answered by Megan 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you truly value his friendship, and he is indeed straight, don't try anything with him. If he's a good friend, it's not worth losing him for some little fling.
2007-11-23 07:44:18 · answer #5 · answered by pceej 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't do that! If you say your friend is straight leave him alone and go find someone who's attracted to men.
2007-11-23 07:21:40 · answer #6 · answered by kharilli 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
If he is straight then don't even go there.
He'll not want to try anything like that with you
Just keep him as a friend
2007-11-23 07:29:03 · answer #7 · answered by StretfordEnder 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You'll go through your life lusting after hundreds of straight guys, but they are forbidden fruit. There's a risk that you'll end up with a flattened nose. They're straight and you can't turn them. Forget him and move on.
2007-11-23 07:23:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
you cannot-your freind is straight and that is the end of it-if you attempt to "get him to try something " with you-not only are you out of order it would in all likelyhood damage your freindship with your freind irrepairably. accept that it's not going to happen with this person and move on.
2007-11-23 07:32:55 · answer #9 · answered by tony c 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he's straight, don't torture yourself... or risk your friendship.... just go date some hot guys and have fun... it takes two willing willys to make a gay relationship work... :P
2007-11-23 07:25:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋